2007-10-04 06:19:33 · 6 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know of any problem jealosy doesn't create. They are so many that it is hardly worth trying to list them all. The quickest way one can say it is that jealosy at its very least, is a nagging mistrust of your partner's faithfulness, and at its most dangerous, a motive for murder.
The best advice I would ever give to anyone, man or woman, is that the moment you get the sense that your partner/husband/significant other is not wholly trusting of you, when you know that it is unjustified, what you do is get the heck outta Dodge. Terminate that relationship, pack your bags; get gone. Know why? Because Jealosy is an "eating disease".... it eats away at that person, burrowing into his/her mind, slowly eroding any real love there ever might have been. It is a degenerative disease, meaning that it gets gradually worse and worse with time, so that by degrees, the victim of the jealosy suffers more and more emotional (and sometimes even physical) abuse.
You only stick your finger in a light socket once and unless you have absolutely no common sense at all, you NEVER do it again. Once you realise that your partner unfairly mistrusts you, but you just hang around keeping yourself close to that person, and keeping your whole life bound to theirs, that's exactly what you are doing.... sticking your finger in that light socket over and over and over again.
2007-10-04 06:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have actually found that the more jealous a person is the more shady activity they are up too. Jealousy is insecurity in disguise, which causes you to do impulse things to make yourself feel better.
2007-10-04 06:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy can cause many serious problems. In my case I was constantly jealous of my hubby going out and thinking he's cheating so now i Join him and I cheat... it's AWESOMEEEEEEEE only one problem, i'm still jealous because i feel he can cheat or has more cheating time then i do....... and that urgeeee drives me KUKUUUUUU!
2007-10-04 06:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by LLorona 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Distrust, anger, resentment, controlling behavior, paranoia.
2007-10-04 06:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by CC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anger, distrust, distance.
2007-10-04 06:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by Nurse Winchester 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust
if you dont have trust in a relationship it'll all go downhill
2007-10-04 06:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by ladyeve983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋