Why when you find a woman that have a great mind and knows what she wants, you guys can not handle that.
2007-10-04 06:09:19 · 14 answers · asked by BETTYBOOBOO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah youre right. But thats because I'm gay.
2007-10-04 06:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, you can't generalize that all men cannot handle a woman with a great mind and knows what she wants. I'm assuming you've had some sort of rejection where you feel you have a lot to offer. A good personality is a great quality for a woman to have, but if there are other factors (clinginess, attraction, emotional stability) that come into play. Good personality simply isn't enough to stand on it's own.
2007-10-04 06:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by Psylence 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not about we cannot handle that, 2 things happen basically,
1. cause u think u too good, u end up gettin over confident and dating a loser who would never take that. So it was a wrong pick on ur end.
2. U think you are so good that u stop thinking, that a good relationship needs equal space for every1 and u think u are the superior being.
If you are good at what you do, share your success wit him and not belittle him and see him happy for you and supporting you to achieve more. Who wouldn't wanna date a successful woman?
2007-10-04 06:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by protocol96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can handle it just fine, would prefer it actually. The problem is actually finding such a woman. I'm 48 and have found exactly one woman like that, but she was killed in a traffic accident. Never found another one.
2007-10-04 06:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because usually the woman with a great mind, who knows what she wants, also thinks that she knows what the man wants. Ladies.... please read less Cosmo and leave certain things to mystery. There are no experts, certain things just have to be un-known.
2007-10-04 06:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by Ilya S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife has a great mind and that besides some other fisical facts realy atracted me to her.
So it doesnt apply on everyone.
But I know what your saying becaus I know guys that wont take a women with a great mind.
Take care
2007-10-04 06:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by Sorry deleted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question speaks volumes about you. You're obviously hard-headed. Who wants to be around someone that thinks they're right all the time and is incapable of compromise? The problem isn't with the guys you're around....the problem is with YOU. The truth hurts, I know, but you really need to deal with it if you ever hope to find someone you'll be able to get along with.
2007-10-04 06:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel L 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lol bettyboo maybe thats ur guy not men in general. I can tell the way u say men u think ur a know it all when ur actually not, so i don't blame the guys u where with haaaaaaaa
2007-10-04 06:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's because we know that we aren't good enough for someone that is so perfect. Below is my list of what to avoid when looking for a woman---
1. male genitalia
2. hairy chest
3. great mind
4. knowing what she wants
get over yourself......you may need #1 for that.
2007-10-04 06:21:58 · answer #9 · answered by Jay E 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
alot of guys may fill like they are not good enough for you, and they become intimidated by the fact that you are really that great of a lady
2007-10-04 06:14:15 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married her.
The players move on, which is really what you want. The right one will find you sooner or later.
Good Luck!
2007-10-04 06:13:38 · answer #11 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋