Have you ever mistaken romantic love for saving grace?

Question

Like a romantic relationship can save you and make you whole and healthy?

Answer 1

Yeah, you know what it is a lie, and never works. That is called codependency, when you rely on someone else to make you happy. The happiest people are those who are content even alone. They can share and not be demanding and draining one the other person.

Answer 2

I think have to say no. You have to make your own self whole and healthy. Thats what I am learning. No one can save you but your self.