becoming more than just that? As in establish a relationship
2007-10-04 05:45:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free.
Doubtful
2007-10-04 05:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by Fuzzybutt 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Loads of potential to get hurt. (been there done that). Doesn't usually happen. By becoming 'shag buddies' you set the boundaries on the relationship, well it's not even that really as it just meets a need. Learnt to respect you so others do. Then the next time you make love it will be with some one who wants to take things forward not keep what you have at the most basic level.
2007-10-04 05:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There 's not much chance of becoming more. I had a friend with benefits, and a little after a year of being buddies she wanted a long term serious relationship. However, I didn't want the same because I didn't see any potential as a good wife or the mother to my children. So she found another buddy and ended up marrying him.
Similar things have happened to friends of mine.
So with all that being said, there isn't much of a chance. But there is a chance.
2007-10-04 13:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by Beach Bum Wannabe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
slim to none. it's practically impossible. and then, if they do establish a relationship somehow, it is ruined within weeks. It doesn't work for a number of reasons, number one being the very reasons they are "buddies" is to avoid commitment, and when they go toward it, someone ends up running. another being that they already have everything they want without commitment, and can get it elsewhere as well, there is no reason to commit to their "buddy".
2007-10-04 05:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by Mary Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty slim. Usually if you enter into a casual relationship like that it's because it's convenient, not because there are true and lasting feelings for the other person. One person is likely to get more involved and either is likely to leave the set up as soon as they find someone they truly care about. I just read an interesting article about it, here it is...
2007-10-04 05:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by graybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't take shag buddies for the relationship, he'll probably feel cheated.
2007-10-04 05:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by Cold Bird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slim,but still possible.
Talking to eachother will help to understand what either of you want and don't want in this kind of relationship.
If you don't talk,you may end up stuck in the same situation for a very long time,and that would be time wasted,especially if both of you want different things out of it.
2007-10-07 02:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by tinyfeet64 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe pretty hight it all depends on what you both want and ofc to make it emphasized to one another,the thing is i belive on how much you both think of each other appreciate each other and most importantly how well you get along,it all starts from having a few bangs anuway it has for me then feeling grew 3 times in a row .3 relatioships that is .
2007-10-04 05:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by ahvillian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible. I've been with a few that av resulted in a relationship. But none of them have lasted lol:- so don't know whether thats a no then..?
2007-10-04 05:49:24 · answer #9 · answered by kl240 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate the term 'shag buddies',i hate that idea of college existence ,its such a degrading thing!!
2007-10-04 06:00:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋