2007-10-04 02:16:24 · 19 answers · asked by Carla 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I work with a bunch of men I dont ever flirt with at all, yet their girlfriends and wives hate ME are rude to ME. Hello ??? What is wrong with these people????
2007-10-04 02:17:16 · update #1
they are not going to like any woman that their man flirts with that is human nature, but their dislike is aimed at the wrong person. it is their men and the disrespect shown to them that's who they need to get with. as long as there is no physical threat i would continue to go on about my business.
2007-10-04 02:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If one or two of these ladies "hate" you, then chances are they are just the unreasonable type who are also jealous of waitresses, bus drivers, even nuns. But if ALL of them "hate" you, then the problem is probably YOU. How do you respond to the men's flirting? Do you giggle & blush or coldly remind that this is work, not a party? Is your work dress that of a lady who is there to work? or there to play?
If you're young and haven't really developed your "business manners" yet, then get some library books, read up, and start practicing. Relating with the men at work in the same you related with your fellow (male) students in school simply isn't appropriate. And especially make sure that your clothing signals to peers, superiors, and clients that you are not there for decorative reasons, you are there to WORK. Personal expression is for personal time, not work time.
2007-10-04 05:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy doesnt deserve to have the wife and child. And the wife and child dont deserve whats going on. He's a f****** ***. Whoever you are asking the question - wow - I dont know if you are the man (asshole) or the woman at work - or a co-worker - so I cant suggest anything - the guy is a selfish - uncaring *** when it comes to his wife and baby. I hope that somehow the wife finds out - I guess thats up to you . . .
2016-05-20 22:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are jealous...you can't really blame them, even though it's not your fault their boyfriends and husbands flirt with you. It is only human. You know, they are giving you attention that their wives and girlfriends don't want them to give to you, so of course they aren't going to like it. Just ignore them, there's not much else you can do.
2007-10-04 02:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
People are jealous. Are they telling their wives that you are flirting with them? Some people don't want to believe that their husband would flirt with another woman so they think that it has to be you.
2007-10-04 20:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They consider you a threat, even though you aren't. Treat those women like friends, or at least people you're happy to see. Eventually they'll realize you aren't after their guys. It isn't fair, but reacting to them in any other way just continues with problem. Be the better woman! Good luck.
2007-10-04 02:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lady G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who's easier to blame - the person you love or the complete stranger?
I'd start mentioning to these men that you'd prefer to keep it professional at work and that their wives would prefer that as well.
2007-10-04 03:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
females are jeolous!
its normal for them to think when their guy likes someone else they don't live with you so they can take it out on you instead of causing an issue at home!
or both if they are crazy!
it could all be in your head to try hanging out with some of the girls! invite them to girl parties have a sex toy party for females only or something!
get them to like you!
they will see your not flirting ! more so when they become your friends!~
other then that they are just threatened by you!
2007-10-04 02:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are good looking and sexy, then thats why men frlirt with you even if you don't they see some body language that makes you look flirty and sorry about that and women tends to be jealous of you maybe because of the situations that you are with their man company for almost 1/3rd of the day of the life(which is almost 8 hrs. of the waking life.)
2007-10-04 02:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they see you as a threat to their relationship. Although, I would chew out the guy for the flirting, not the girl he's hitting on.
2007-10-04 03:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by Sakaki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋