I don't think i got my point across in my last question, my dad we left when i was 7 now 8 yrs later he is back, all he ever talks about is women he wants to sh*g and he keeps tryin to get with my mom, he hasn't grown up at all, he tells me what i can and can't do what to wear ect, he has a court order to stay away frm me, he was controllin when we lived with him and he is doin it again, he lets me down all the time, says he is comin and never turns up and doesn't get in touch to tell me. he basiclly calls me a slag, he ignores me when he is here he just talks to my mom and bro, he doesn't stick up for me ever, he asks to see my mom on her own without me, goes mad as i apparently follow them everywhere, seems to me that my so called father wants more to do with my mom than he does me? he wants us to move back in with him but said if we do he will make my life a living hell. i didn't give u all the details in last question. so here they are. now do you think i should chuck him???
2007-10-04 01:16:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes my mother knows what he is like, she didn't want me to see him in the first place but i wanted to see what he was like (guess i know now) she doesn't want to get back with him, but he is very pushy!
2007-10-04 01:29:53 · update #1
well my dad wants my mom back, but when he asks her and things she ignores him she don't say yes or No, she just tells him that me and my bro don't want them back together, which me and bro says it look's like then she does want to but blames us, but she says she doesn't and hates on him all the time, she just says she goes along with it until i tell him to leave!! but me and my bro say she should just say your here to see your daughter nothing else. urgh! so hard, i think sometimes they wish it was just my mom and bro!
2007-10-04 03:47:06 · update #2
He calls you a slag?? He'd better take a good look at himself before calling you that. Does your mom know that he talks to you this way? If not, then you need to tell her. Hopefully, she wont take his crap and go back with him. Hopefully someday he'll grow up. It sounds like he needs to. I feel bad for you and I don't really know what to tell you to do. Follow your heart and hope for the best. Good luck!
2007-10-04 01:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by pebbles 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 05:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by ritzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry to learn of your problems. No young lady should have to tolerate such psychological mistreatment. If there is a court order that he is to stay away from you, the authorities should know that he is breaking the court order.
The only thing other than turning him in for violating the Court Order, is to avoid him as much as possible and try to stay out of his way.
2007-10-04 02:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by jcf6865 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have no responsibility to see him. He's the one who abandoned you and it sounds like he still makes you feel badly. He sounds like he's really irresponsible and you'll probably feel better if you didn't see him.
He'll prove to you that he can be a good father if he wants contact with you and to be in your life.
And try to encourage your mum not to move in with him, have a talk to her about how he is making you feel.
2007-10-04 04:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Your mom and dad's relationship is none of your business no matter what the marital status. What kind of impression did the "court" give you? Seems to me the "court" wants you keep causing problems and inspires the young to get into trouble. They are not your friends dear.
What is your relationship to your father and mother?
2007-10-04 01:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I think the divorce made him upset. He never got a chance to be your "father", he's trying to make up for it. Don't be too hard on him. If you are upset just tell him your feelings. Good luck
2007-10-04 01:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Dogs Rule:) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If there is a court order against him why is he coming around? He could be arrested for that.
2007-10-04 01:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by desiree c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your father isn't a good example of what not to do and who not to be with than you maybe setting your life up to do what he does!
CHUCK HIM!
2007-10-04 01:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by Numb 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should chuck him out of a window.
2007-10-04 01:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep a safe distance from him and just tell him...you think he is immature and you dont need him for a role model
2007-10-04 02:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋