2007-10-04 00:39:18 · 12 answers · asked by she 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
how could you be anyone else?
2007-10-04 00:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by I don't look like this 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is a battle most humans go through.
Next time your out with people just try these few things
1. when you think something and this thought follows (will they laugh at me, or will they ignore me, or will they..... whatever) say it anyway! Don't say something just because you think that person wants to hear it! Say what you want to say not what y ou think they want you to say!
it's hard! trust me! so don't expect it to change overnight!
but give it a shot!
2. if you want to jump up and yell hello then do so!
some one said to me to be yourself you have to say what you think! but you control that so you can control yourself and who you want to be!
Mocking other humans! or copy cat!
it's okay it makes you who you are! it's not a followers trait either! you ahve to have some sort of roll model! and just because you have them don't me you have to mock every thinga bout them just the traits you like and admire!
so for example my boss who i admire says "you have to have a clear head proir to going into a meeting" I love her work eithic so i listend carefully! not that i'm trying to one up her but i put my own spin on it i like a clear head to but i also like to be relaxed so i mediate proir to a metting!
mainly any thaoughs or actions you suprress because your afraid of someone elses reaction is that what YOU really want to do ?
here is a site that helped me grab a hold of life and find out who i am!
www.coping.org
i went throught this same thing about 3 years ago!
as an adult so soul search and be proud of who you already are!
oh yeah btw i found out i was being myself all along!
2007-10-04 02:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the hardest thing. When you are alone and the social masks have dropped away, who are you then? What is left is you. A lot of people have lost sight of who they are because we're always trying to be someone or something else.
2007-10-04 00:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by Fröken Fräken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With grace, poise, humility and honesty. And most importantly, enjoyment of life.
2007-10-04 00:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Sally Anne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be the leader and not the follower.
2007-10-04 00:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are who you are
ANd if you act like someone you're not, then who are you?
ALWAYS be yourself.
and be true to yourself
and be good to yourself
2007-10-04 00:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by Tray B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just by being who you are and not trying to be someone else; people is suppose to like you with your defaults and your qualities
2007-10-04 00:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has a very simple answer smile
2007-10-04 00:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be natural and discard artificiality.
2007-10-04 00:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how to be anyone else. do you?
2007-10-04 00:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋