Question for the religious only: Sex for the single, unmarried muslims during Ramadan!?

Question

It seems that a married couple can engage in sexual acts after sundown?! What about the desires of the unmarried muslims? Of course it goes against all religious belief to engage in any sexual activity before marriage. That is understood CLEARLY! The issue at hand is that there are many more singles who have the same human desires of those that are married! Why are we to be treated at a greater disadvantage than those who are married and get to indulge in sexual desires after the sunset!

In plain English (Aside from the normal sin of everyday religion) Why can't I have sex after the sun sets?

I DON'T NEED THE AVG. CLOSE MINDED RESPONSE SAYING SEX IS WRONG, AND THAT IM NOT MUSLIM...YADA, YADA. (I am Muslim, and college educated)
This question engages the open minded, and challenges the term wife today compared to when the Prophet Muhammed was around! Is there more of a sin placed upon me for engaging in sexual acts from sundown to sunset if I am unmarried, including masterbation

I asked the same question yesterday, and did not get an educated answer. I careless about opinions or anything to justify my desires. I want to know if there is an accurate answer to my question!!

Answer 1

1)u can masterbate after ur IFTAR no problem
2) premarital sex is sin in every religion so if u do in ordinary days or in ramazan it is a sin.
3) but if u want to enjoy then enjoy and dont ask permission from yahoo community.

Answer 2

By fasting the sexual desires of muslims including unmarried muslims can be controlled easily because the willingness for sex is decreased. after sundown.Besides that we muslims have more praying than in other months.In Ramadhan we have taraweh praying together in mosque until late at night.We usually read holy Qur'an every night until finished for 30 chapters during Ramadhan so ane chapter for one night at least..Naturally for a single muslim if his sperms are full,automatically he will have a "wet dream" or making a masturbation as a solution.Adultery is prohibited by God. but
masturbation is allowed.Physical exercise will decrease our sex desires too.So there are many sex solutions without adultery.

Answer 3

No in Islam virginity is important for both men and women until marriage. If you feel that you can not go by without having sex and committing fornication then you should get married to avoid being tempted by Iblis to do something haraam. If you have sex before marriage you are committing fornication and are wasting your seed(sperm) and are just like the animals.

Answer 4

You asked the same question yesterday. Didn't you get the answer you wanted?

Answer 5

Dude.. if u & ur partner wants it.. then everytime is appropriate. There is no logic in doing it b4/after sunset. But proceed with some precautions (i.e. birth control..)...

Answer 6

You seek answers to justify your lust and lack of self-discipline

Answer 7

"The issue at hand"

hee hee

Answer 8

http://islaam.com/ramadan/advice_to_muslims.htm

Few intoductory and complementary notes by the translator:

1. Ramadhan is an auspicious opportunity for believers to renew their
commitment to their Creator and the Sovereign of the Day of Recompense.
This commitment must be both outward and inward, so that a Muslim not
only
recites more Qur'an and offers more units of prayer, but that she or he
does so with reflection, humility and attentiveness.

2. Muslims must ensure they are not formalists who concentrate only on
the
outward. Achieving Allah's acceptance must be a believer's priority
and
is not easy. "Indeed, Allah only accepts from the righteous [who fear
him
- al muttaqoon]." [Qur'an 5:27]

3. Ramadhan is a wonderful opportunity for accounting of one's sins and
making repentance. If one does not repent in Ramadhan, when will he or
she do so?

4. Muslims should strive to worship Allah as best as they can from the
beginning of the month, for that increases chances of the end of the
month
being good as well.

5. Muslims should consider what is it that they truly want to achieve
in
Ramadhan, whether they want to be from the winners or from the losers,
and
should make sure they do not perform acts of worship simply because it
is
the surrounding people's custom to do so.

6. Muslims must be firmly aware that Ramadhan is only a means and not
an
end.




Advice to Muslims in Ramadhan

From the book "Khulaasatul Kalaam" by Shaykh Jaarullah.

Brother Muslim, Sister Muslima:

1. Fast Ramadhan with belief and truly seeking the reward of Allah the
Most High so that He may forgive you your past sins.

2. Beware of breaking your fast during the days of Ramadhan without a
valid Islamic excuse, for it is from the greatest of sins.

3. Pray Salat ut-Taraweeh and the night prayer during the nights of
Ramadhan - especially on Layatul-Qadr - based on belief and truly
seeking
the reward of Allah, so that Allah may forgive you your past sins.

4. Make sure that your food, your drink and your clothing are from
halal
means, in order that your actions be accepted, and your supplications
answered. Beware of refraining from the halal while fasting and
breaking
your fast with the haram.

5. Give food to some fasting people to gain a reward similar to
theirs.

6. Perform your five prayers on time in congregation to gain the
reward
and Allah's protection.

7. Give a lot of charity for the best charity is that of Ramadhan.

8. Beware of spending your time without performing righteous deeds,
for
you will be responsible and reckoned for it and will be rewarded for
all
you do during your time.

9. Perform `umrah in Ramadhan for `Umrah in Ramadhan is equal to Hajj.

10. Seek help for fasting during the day by eating the sahoor meal in
the
last part of the night before the appearance of Fajr.

11. Hasten breaking your fast after the sun has truly set in order to
gain the love of Allah.

12. Perform ghusl before fajr if you need to purify yourself from the
state of major impurity so that you are able to do acts of worship in a
state of purity and cleanliness.

13. Cease the opportunity of being in Ramadhan and spend it with the
good
that has been revealed in it - by reciting the noble Qur'an and
pondering
and reflection of its meanings so that it be a proof for you with your
Lord and an intercessor for you on the Day of Reckoning.

14. Preserve your tongue from lying, cursing, backbiting and slander
for
it decreases the reward of fasting.

15. Do not let fasting cause you cross your boundaries by getting upset
due to the slightest of reasons. Rather, fating should be a cause of
peacefulness and tranquility of your soul.

16. Upon completion of fasting, be in a state of taqwa of Allah the
Most
High, being aware of Allah watching you in secret and in public, in
thankfulness for His favors, and steadfastness upon obedience of Allah
by
doing all what He has ordered and shunning all that He has prohibited.

17. Increase in remembrance of Allah, seeking of forgiveness, asking
for
Paradise and protection against the Fire, especially when fasting,
while
breaking the fast and during suhoor, for these actions are among
greatest
causes of attaining Allah's forgiveness.

18. Increase in supplication for yourself, your parents, your children
and Muslims, for Allah has ordered making of supplications and has
guaranteed acceptance.

19. Repent to Allah with a sincere repentance in all times by leaving
sins, regretting those that you have done before and firmly deciding
not
to return to them in the future, for Allah accepts repentance of those
who
repent.

20. Fast six days of Shawwal, for whoever fasts Ramadhan and then
follows
it with six days of Shawwal, it is as if he fasts all the time.

21. Fast on the Day of `Arafah, the 9th of Dhul Hijjah, to attain
success
by being forgiven your sins of the last year and the coming year.

22. Fast on the day of `Aashuraa', the 10th of Muharram, along with the
9th, to attain success by being forgiven your sins of the past year.

23. Continue being in a state of iman and taqwa and perform righteous
actions after the month of Ramadhan, until you die. "And worship your
Lord until there comes to you the certainty (i.e. death)". [Qur'an
15:99]

24. Ensure that you attain the positive effects of your acts of
worship
such as prayer, fasting, zakat and hajj, sincere repentance and leaving
of
customs that are in variance with the Sharee`ah.

25. Invoke a lot of salawat and salam upon the Messenger of Allah, may
Allah's blessings and peace be upon him, his Companions and all those
who
follow them until the Day of Judgment.

O Allah make us and all Muslims of those who fast and stand in prayer
during the month of Ramadhan based on belief and truly seeking Your
reward
so that we are forgiven our past and future sins.

O Allah make us of those who fasted the month, attained full reward,
witnessed Layatul-Qadr and attained success by permission of the Lord,
Blessed and Most High.

O Allah, verily you are Forgiver, like to forgive, so forgive us.

O Lord, accept from us, verily you are the All-Hearing, all-Seeing, O
Living, O Independent, O Owner of all majesty and honor.

And may Allah's blessings and peace be upon Muhammad, his family and
his
Companions.