Women are threatened by my appearance and I hardly have any female friends. I smile and I'm a positive person. I never hit on someone else's husband or boyfriend when they are the ones who are hitting on me and I am at fault for it. It hurts to see other women talk behind my back and give me looks like I'm a biatch, whore, slut, when I didn't do anything to them or their boyfriends/husbands. I guess they are jealous or threatened of me, my looks, or something, so they give me a bad name and spread rumors behind my back. I take care of myself, exercise, and eat right. I know how to dress. I wear clothes that doesn't show my cleavage and if I wear dresses, they are below my knees, not miniskirts. I do not dress promiscuous like I'm asking for it. Natural beauty runs in my family. My mother is beautiful and graceful for her age and looks like a model. My grandmother is almost 70 and still looks stunning and beautiful.
How do I make other women trust me because I am a good person?
2007-10-03 15:50:47 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I feel like my being "beautiful" is a crime and sometimes I want to look just average to be accepted by society.
2007-10-03 15:54:15 · update #1
I asked a question that I'm concerned about and I got responses that I said I'm full of myself? If you want to insult me, you have to do better than that. I
2007-10-03 15:57:43 · update #2
Women are just naturally jealous when they feel they have to compete for their man. They just feel like they are insecure around you. Just be yourself that's all you can do. Gosh! I wish I had your confidence.
2007-10-03 15:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by noseygirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is more here. You are giving off a vibe, something that either is flirtation or borders on it and you may not be aware that you are sending that out. When at a social gathering, don't hang with the guys, (not that you are doing that now) find a woman in the crowd to buddy or pal around the party or event with, pick topics to discuss, make a female friend, that often helps get the other women off your back and gives you an ally against rumors. Be aware of not touching married or attached males, as in sharing a story and touching a shoulder or arm or hand...being respectful of personal space. Though your gesture may have been completely innocent, it might not be interpreted that way by the wife or girlfriend watching. Just be a bit more aware of yourself. But do try to make some friendships with women, it will help to have a buddy system.
2007-10-03 16:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by teacupn 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women are the most jealous creatures on the face of the earth when another woman has "it" and they don't. It seems they simply cannot comprehend that looks can only go so far in this world. I don't know what you're giving off as far as attitude is concerned but that would certainly compound the problem. When another woman's husband or boyfriend hits on you...make certain to walk away and not entertain it for an instant.
It's very difficult to have other women trust you because you are a threat to them...or so they think. Just be yourself, lose the attitude if you have one and keep walking through life.
2007-10-03 15:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by Chris B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't. You can't make a person feel one way or another about you. All you can do is be yourself, respect yourself and treat others as you hope to be treated. Woman that are insecure with themselves or their relationships will always be out there and put the blame on someone else instead of looking at themselves or their relationship for the faults that they see. It is easier to judge someone else than it is to judge ourselves or the people we love. If someone starts a rumor confront that person. If it is a bad enough rumor confront that person in front of other people. Hold them accountable for their actions. If someones husband or boyfriend is hitting on you put him in his place. Let him know how unappropriate it is for him to be hitting on you when he is in a relationship. You could say something like. How could I possibly be turned on by what you are saying when I know you would cheat on me as easily as you would your wife or girlfriend now. Continue to be a good person and conduct yourself in the ways that you have been. The friends that you do have will conduct themselves in a similiar manner or they are not really friends to begin with. Good luck to you
2007-10-03 16:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by D and G Gifts Etc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so tough being beautiful right? I'm kidding, but I think you need to go out of your way a bit to get woman to like you. Try to be as nice as humanly possible to other women, even if you feel fake doing it. If you overcompensate with kindness, they will finally understand that your not a mean whore or whatever. Some women are just not confident about their looks and are easily intimidated. It's okay, guys are better to hang out with anyway.
2007-10-03 15:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by beautyqueen18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the worlds full of haters thats there job I heard a comedian say if you get hated on and you have 15 girls hateing on you you better do what you go to do have number 16 by the end of the week if you look good and dress conservativly forget about it be a nice person to everyone and if you get treated badly forget them there not worth your time and move on love your self dont let anyone make you feel bad for looking hot just know they are so insecure they cant see straight
2007-10-03 15:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by chadjuly4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you may have to face the fact that women are catty and you will not be "one of the gals". If you are kind and don't give in to their pettiness and insecurities, you are beautiful on the inside and the outside. When you get older, this will change a little, don't get me wrong, these nasty women are still out there in their 30s, 40s and 50s. In the meantime, just hang out with other hotties, it makes life so much easier.
2007-10-03 15:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by Parkie21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
women are not threatened by your looks they just dislike your attitude or you may be hanging out with women who don't feel good about themselves and therefore feel like their husbands would prefer you to them. I have met people like that and i run like the wind, because they never make good friends, they don't want you to succeed in anything because they see it as a direct attack on them and well, you never have fun when you are with them. So do what i do, choose your friends wisely. If you meet someone who is constantly alternating betwen being offensive or defensive when you are with them run for the hills, because you are not going to solve their problems and worse still they will take away rather than add to your life.
2007-10-03 15:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by uz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just relax. It makes no difference to females whether your mother and grandmother are beautiful or not. Be who you are. Be personally hygienic, especially dentally, be thoughtful about how you combine the colors you wear, and focus on your educaton. I believe you are a good person. There is a wonderful female out here who will see that, and be happy to have you in her life.
2007-10-03 15:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u cae if other women trust you??? if they dont want to be nice n realize that you are a good person than its their lost never mind some womens ignorance they are just jealous because you are beautiful!!! sooo my advice for you keep being yourself because people will always talk unfortunately. take it as a compliment. At least you stand out enough to be noticed.
2007-10-03 16:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by pink! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women feel that way because of their own insecurities. Not all women feel that way of course. Some are jealous and it doesn't even have to be because you are beautiful. That's just the way people are now days. Making other women to trust you will be almost impossible. They will just have to know the real you for trust to begin.
2007-10-03 15:56:48 · answer #11 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋