The past few years things have gotten really weird between my sister & I. I just got fed up w/ the disrespect & dismissive attitude of hers every time I would ask what's going on with her. She's been playing some mind games & I finally got fed up and called her on it, & put my foot down, telling her she has to come clean as I was done with the games. Her answer was to as usual clam up & then emotionally blackmail me by refusing her kids to see me. She refuses to talk about how things could be hammered out between us and does not want to talk, as usual. She feels she's innocent & is trying to showcase me like some nut that suddenly snapped to anyone who will listen. We mutually know a lot of people & her husband has no choice but to stand by her no matter what. She's involved him too despite my telling her this is between me and her. She knows she's in the wrong and her actions prove it even more. She doesn't hesitate to yell at me when she feels I messed up but I work it out w/her.
2007-10-03 14:53:28 · 2 answers · asked by brilliantyetconfused 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you are fed up with your sister's attitude, then maybe you need to avoid her.
Gather your dignity, act like a lady and don't allow her to control your emotions anymore... you can't fix or change her, so no use wasting good energy on HER problems.
I'm sure you have other, more important things to do that deal with her drama.
I'm sorry for your problems, i know it has to hurt because she is your sister. Sometimes we have to move forward and do what's best for ourselves.
2007-10-03 16:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her.. i had to do the same with my brother about 9 years ago, too bad there has to be one in every family like that it seems
2007-10-03 14:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋