so today i realized that if i where to die like now i would not even care. i just look inside of me and dont see anything of meaning. i dont care if i die. im only 17 my parents devorced last christmass and my girl friend broke up with me maby that helps. now i look at every body i know and they are a s s wholes. im not going to kill myself but if something happened i really would not care. i have nothing im lonley.
2007-10-03 14:25:42 · 4 answers · asked by kkkk53564367 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Sweetie, I would care! This sounds really serious! I'm so sorry! I think you might want to seek help! I know of people who have been through the exact same thing and they felt as if life was hopeless. I could definitley understand how you are feeling because you have been through so much and you are so brave to go through all of this! I think the first step is to seek a psychiatrist immediatly because it seems like you are going through trauma and a psychiatrist can talk to you and help you get on successful treatment plan ! You can also discuss any severe (or mild) symptoms that you have and they will mtach the treatment plan with your specific needs! You can also seek a counselor because they can help you with the emotional trauma and give you realaxation techniques that you can use to make you feel better. In addition, they can talk to you about anything that you are experiencing or emotions that you are feeling! There is hope out there and I am going to give you some resources that you can use! Here they are:
www.helpguide.org/mental/children_divorce.htm
http://www.aacap.org/publications/factsfam/divorce.htm
www.geocities.com/Heartland/Bluffs/5400/divorce.html
http://www.apa.org
http://www.ptsdalliance.org/home2.html
http://www.nimh.nih.gov
I hope this helps you! Please, do not hesitate to get help because everyone needs help! Even movie stars or people that you look up to need help! Things will get better, I promise! I will make sure to pray for you every night! I hope you get better real soon!
2007-10-03 18:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, periods of futility affect almost everyone I know. About your parents: Would you rather they still be married, and really unhappy as individuals, and go through all the discord that exist in an unhappy marriage ? Or do you think its better for both of them to find their place in space in peace? Heck, if I were your girlfriend, I wouldn't want to have a boyfriend like you. Moping around and wallowing in self pity. Dang, focus on your education, you have to get a good one you know. Everyone is not a rectum. Got that. And sometimes I'm lonely too. But life is an opportunity, and to waste your opportunity is really ungreen.
2007-10-03 21:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry you feel this way i am 25 and i get lonely too marriages are hard and your parents had their reasons. You have to go on life will not always kick you focus on the good and the things you love. You still love each parent and you still have days ahead of you that will become brighter. go out meet people and learn about what you like in life....It will not get better if you do not change your focus!!! try to look at the good not the bad.
2007-10-03 21:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by just duky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this too shall pass. The one certain thing in life is that things change. Bad times come to us all, so do good times, you just need to learn to wait out the bad ones and truly appreciate the good ones.
2007-10-03 21:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋