Ok, theres this guy on my bus. Hes really cute and all, but im new to this school, so i dont know him and he doesnt know me. I dont even know if he knows my name. We havent talked at all yet, but sometimes we like make eye contact or whatever, but im kindof shy and look away. he rides the bus like two days a week in the morning because his parnets are divorced, and his step sister is a girl who ive known for ever, but im not on her "worth talking to" list, so she basically ignores my presence. But he also rides the bus with her, on friday afternoon (hes on the football team so he doesnt ride any other afternoons, but wont ride on fridays if he has a game) one friday he sat next to me, but his step sister was already sitting there and came over and made him move. so he sat infont of me (there were open seats infront and behind me) but he also sits behind me every morning with a whole back of the bus empty everybody is quiet in the morning so idk what to do about getting him to notice me
2007-10-03 12:58:41 · 6 answers · asked by <3Hey<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't go out of your way to get him to notice you. You mentioned that he makes eye contact with you and that he has at least tried to sit with you before. It seems to me that on some level he has noticed you. I know it's a hard pill to swallow, but the best advice is to just be yourself and let time take its course. It's easier said than done, but just be his friend. If there are romantic undertones to your relationship they will sprout when the time is right.
Good luck.
Oh, and if it doesn't work out, just remember that he was the guy who was whipped by his sister, lol.
2007-10-03 13:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sister is a biggie... You gotta do a little reconnaisance(know that word?) First, is the sister older or younger. Is she more popular than he is? Who else does he hang out with that you know? How does his step-sister feel about you? do you ever see them argue? Has she done anything to embarrass him? Get some "intelligence" (info) first. Then you can develop a strategy where he may talk to you. If the sis doesn't like you, and he values her opinion, then it may be tough to talk to him on the bus. find another venue. if she is more dominant than he, then you may have to find a way to get her on your side, even if she doesn't talk to you in school may not mean she doesn't like you. You may have to get in in such a way that she thinks you are good for him, although that is a precarious line to walk with the sis, since she is a girl, and girl can sometimes be 2 faced...
do you have class together? try to get him to partner up with you on projects if so.
Another thing if he tries to sit next you again, AS SOON as he sits down, akcnowledge it! simply say hi, put out your hand for him to shake it, and tell him your name! If he's interested, he'll say hi too, tell you his name, and possibly strike off a conversation. This is probably the hardest part of the whole thing, but if you do this, he will realize you are approachable, and he will talk to you again, or if anything, it will be easier to say hi to him the next time you see him in the halls.
2007-10-03 13:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by mitchellmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want this guy to notice you just be yourself. You never know what will happen if you don't give it a go and don't make a try at things, don't let your shyness get in the way. If you don't try you will regret it. Make conversation with him get to know him but don't expect anything from it as he may not be interested but the only way to find that out is to make the conversation if not atleast you make a new friend.
As for his sister, well that can be quite hard as at school trying to see a guy who is the brother of that person that you are not on their talking list or to know, well why is that? may be it is because she doesn't know you. But if it just because she has her friends and is narrow minded then you shouldn't let it bother you. But it should not matter if he is interested in getting to know you and starting something with you he will not care what his sister thinks.
2007-10-03 13:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by Dancegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress up..sexy clothing and all. And smell good. Then just smile and make eye contact. If you need to bump into him.
2007-10-03 13:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say talk to him and since u dont know each other introduce yourself as your beginning statement. but dont come off too strong. say a gentle "hi" with a tiny smile, then introduce yourself.
2007-10-03 13:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by xxbeautybrixx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and get 2 kno him better..like start conversations...
ask him wat r his favs...etc..
2007-10-03 13:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by luvbunni12394 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋