2007-10-03 10:51:56 · 10 answers · asked by smrpg4148 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this long distance relationship has worked for two years, you have no reason to doubt it. our love is strong, just it sucks with that
2007-10-03 10:55:14 · update #1
no, it is not too much. she should try to do everything to make this relationship work. getting drunk with guys mean she is vulnerable, guys could take advantage of that. if she is not willing to stop drinking with them, I think you know what to do. drinking a little and getting drunk are different. she has no control over herself if she is getting drunk.
2007-10-03 10:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by Carborane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a long distance relationship for a year before I moved back to live with my boyfriend, now fiance. I don't think it is too much to ask. I think that when people get drunk, they can't control their behaviors. I would and I know my fiance would think it was weird if the other one did this. If your girlfriend does not understand where you are coming from or just does not care, I would really think about the relationship.
2007-10-03 10:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you drink, it lowers your inhibitions and that opens the door to cheating. She shouldn't be doing this with other guys. I would say your long distance relationship isn't working. You can't trust her.
Time to move on.
2007-10-03 11:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to really trust her. it if was a good solid relationship in the beginning, she'll never do anything with them if she's smart.
im in the same exact situation...and i'm the girl. i might drink with my guy friends, but i never ever think of doing anything with them, nor will i allow myself to get so bad that i would and not remember.
tell her how you feel. tell her you trust her, but maybe not the guys she's around
2007-10-03 10:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by hopes&dreams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if this is going to be forever long distance love affair, get rid of it now, find a local girl that you can go see every day, go places togeather and have fun , for get the long dis thing..
2007-10-03 10:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sonny H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should trust her enough to know nothing is going to happen if she drinks with other guys. I have a lot of guy friends that I go out with but that doesn't change the fact that I love my boyfriend and would never do anything to hurt him or betray his trust.
2007-10-03 10:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by Steph 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like she doesn't really want a relationship right now if she's pullin that s hit. Break up with her cuz she's prolly already cheated on u.
2007-10-03 10:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly why long distance relationships don't work.
2007-10-03 10:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by Likeitevenmatters21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that when i am drunk, i can control who i hook up with. im sure she can too. let her do what she wants. YOu get drunk with other girls. give her a taste of that. i have the same problem with my boyfriend. if she hooks up with someone because she was 'sooo drunk' im sure she could have controlled herself.
2007-10-03 11:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u have to ask this question then it must be. If it bothers u then your g/f should stop if she loves you.
2007-10-03 10:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋