i was going out with a girl for 6 months. she was cheating on me for 4 of them. i broke up with her but it still hurts 2 think about it and the sight of her infuriates me. any advice? and please dont say take my mind off of her! haha i have tried...
2007-10-03 10:45:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to get into a new relationship. My wife of 10 years cheated on me and aside from just letting time heal the wound, being in a new relationship really helped me more than anything. It's amazing what the attraction and companionship of someone that really wants to be with you can do for your self-esteem.
2007-10-03 10:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not so easy to take your mind off emotional kick to the face like that, only thing you can do is make yourself busy start running and working out, start a new hobby, hang with your friends worse thing you can do is be by yourself, day by day you will think of her less, it took me about a month to get my girl off my mind not completly but now other things come into mind when I am thinking of her so it is alot less so goodd luck bro
2007-10-03 17:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by can only give advice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont hav 2 forget about her, but to help u ease ur mind from her, focus on a sport or hobby u lke, just to help u not think about her as much as u do. u can also try 2 b her friend, just friends and nothing else, who knows u 2 maybe the best of friends.
2007-10-03 17:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by ocean_luver948 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats life people aresent to test you and some are total shits live wiv the thought ya too good for her an someone better will come along who will love idolise and respect you after all she obviously wernt worth wastin breathin nor thinkin space on.it will get bettter in time then youll realise ya better wivout freedom can be good be naughty and live for the moment life to short to waste on scrubbers
2007-10-03 17:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by sallyaboulter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to avoid her as much as possible. I have to work with an ex that seriously f*cked me over and I wanted so bad to hit, yell, and scream at him but I held it in and now karma has taken over HAHA! He got his gf of 5 months pregnant HAHA! Sucks to be him!!
2007-10-03 17:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 options- 1 break up 2 forgive her & take her back.
I had a guy cheat on me & i took him back & we have been together for 6 months.
2007-10-03 17:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by .:*Mizz Senior "09"*:. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this is an awkward thing in any body's life...
you can try getting a new girlfriend or just hanging out with your friends a lot so you feel comfortable around them and eventually u will stop thinking about her
2007-10-03 17:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by Sean John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with friends and find another girl. Trust me when I say once you find someone else you wont even think about the B***H.
2007-10-03 17:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless, another person comes into your life, that wound of your will not heal sooner than it must. All I am saying is that you must just wait, and accept that feeling. Sooner or later it will fade out.
2007-10-03 17:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....how did u find out that she did cheated on u???.....
to be honest my bf also act distance cz he think that i was cheating with my ex.....now i'm assuming that both of us have same story(not sure??..lol) but i never did cheat on my bf.....he missed understood me for being friends with my ex...
any how like u mention u love her....u should get the details from her...why she doing this to u?? let her explain.....learn how to be a good listener......good luck
2007-10-03 17:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋