Does anyone else resent Nicole Richie's pregnancy?

Question

Well I sure do! I hated Nicole Richie for a while now, being such a spoiled brat that takes everything for granted and--most of all--is still left on this planet after abusing drugs worse than a fat guy abuses a Chinese buffet. She should be dead by now like my friend's brother, but noooo...we're still stuck with her and her bad side-swept hairdo.

So when my least favorite, most annoying celebrity became pregnant...you can just imagine my rage! I already resent dislikable people becomming pregnant and getting supported/congratulated by others, since NOBODY supported me when I had a pregnancy scare, and a lot of people insulted me by telling me to get an abortion or tried to tell me that I'd never be able to afford having a kid despite my strong work ethic, thriftiness, and wise money management skills. Why does Nicole deserve our support? Moreso, why was Nicole Richie even able to get pregnant? Anorexic heroin addicts generally are unable to get pregnant. >:(

Anyone else mad?

Of ALL THE PEOPLE TO BECOME PREGNANT...ohhh it couldn't be Paris Hilton, or Lindsay Lohan, or even Ashlee Simpson. No, it had to be Nicole Richie, who's been my #1 most hated celebrity for quite some time now. I resent the fact that she's able to survive abusing heroin whereas my friend's brother(who was a good person) had to die from doing it 1 time...I'd rather she died instead of him. And now I resent the fact that apparently it's "not ok" for me to have a kid, but it's ok for this dimwit? Gee I don't hear anybody telling HER to get an abortion, and she has more of a health risk, considering how underweight she is!

TEXAS: You sound like the stereotypical condescending young parent who thinks that they are so much more mature than me(despite being younger than me) just because you have a kid. I bet I've had more harsh experiences than you with your kid. I've been HOMELESS, then lived in more than one ghetto(which was ROYALTY compared to being homeless let me tell you), was disowned by family, had my mother die right after I finally convinced my family that all their accusations about me were wrong, I had multiple people die within the same yr as my mother, oh yeah and I had a pregnancy scare and was told that I should "get an abortion" because I wasn't "financially capable" despite working my butt off to go from homeless(NOT MY FAULT) to becomming financially stabilized with repaired credit and multiple jobs. If people didn't give ME a break, why should I give Nicole?

Wow some of you guys say I put too much thought into some "celebrutant," yet you guys are putting in some serious thought by saying that I'm "sick" and "messed up" to dislike a stupid disposable celebrity.

OKay so maybe my hatred for Nicole Richie is unwarranted(but seriously, she's only a celebrity...it's not like she's a real person), but what about this girl "Saria"? Saria flamed me & told me to get an abortion, then got pregnant & expected everyone to congratulate her. You cannot expect me to be happy! If anything, SHE was being immature.

And yeah I know it's unhealthy that I have such anger and bitterness, but ever think I got that way as a result of years of neglect and ostracization? One of you said that you were never homeless and never would be, because people love you. I WASN'T LOVED. DOESN'T THAT SHOW YOU WHY I'M SO MESSED UP TODAY???

OK WELL MAYBE THE REASON I'M SO BITTER IS BECAUSE I'M IN THAT SITUATION RIGHT NOW AND I AM REALLY WORRIED THAT IF I TELL MY FRIENDS, THEY WILL JUMP DOWN MY THROAT AGAIN WITH THE ABORTION CRAP. IT WAS ONLY 3 DAYS AGO, AFTER ALL, THAT A FRIEND MADE A SNIDE REMARK ABOUT HOW I COULDN'T BE A FIT PARENT. SO MAYBE I'M WORRIED AND ANNOYED AND ALL OF THE PAST IS GOING TO PROBABLY HAUNT ME AGAIN. MAYBE I SHOULD KILL THE KID & MYSELF...NAH NOT REALLY BUT SOMETIMES THAT'S HOW PEOPLE MAKE ME FEEL

Answer 1

You need some serious help. Why do you focus so much on other peoples lives? Pity no one supported you during your pregnancy scare. However regardless of if you "like" her or "dislike" her the baby is innocent and some people really do change when they have children makes them grow up Ive experianced this first hand. I have never been a drug user or drinking of alcohol but I grew up fast when I had my daughter at age 21 and I am a far better person from having had her

*EDIT* Little girl let me tell you something I am 36 yrs old with a Masters Degree in Clinical Psychology from the University of Texas in Austin. I am the mother of two children first one was born when I was almost 22 and just out of college the second is only 16 months old. I too lost my mother (shot and killed during a traffic stop she was a police officer), I also lost my daughter (at age 14-one month ago today on 9-3-07). I do not care if you were homeless so tell your story to someone else we have all, no matter how much money were were or were not raised with had our trails in life but you seriously need some help if you are so angry about someone being pregnant that you do not know! Furthermore when I say "pity no one was supportive of you" it was NOT ment in a demeaning way dont read more into something that is not there. I lost my mother, grandmother, grandfather, and closest friend all within 6 months of one another. The following yr I lost my uncle and my cousin, last yr I lost my mother in law and this yr my daughter so do not I repeat do NOT go there with me and play the "poor me" routine because I am NOT one that is going to care. Going back to you being homeless no I never was nor do I know anyone that ever has been because my family AND friends cared to much about me no matter what happened or what they thought I did to allow that to happen, even if something were to happen today I'd always have a place to go ask yourself why didnt you?! After my daughter was born her father and I divorced and I was for damn near 12 yrs a single parent. When my daughter was 18 months old we were in a car accident that left her profoundly handicapped when a drunk driver hit us in New Orleans. She had limited speech as a result and was in a wheelchair and did not have use of either of her arms and limited use of her legs, but I did NOT blame every drunk driver I blamed ONE the guy that changed our lives but I lifted myself up instead of sulking and moved on I will NOT let anger consume me. When my daughter was almost 10 yrs old she was deemed terminally ill with stage 4 chronic lung disease and I was told she had 6 months to live. Every single common cold my child got ended her up in the hospital on a vent because she could not breath on her own and "specialst" telling me "We dont think she's going to make it" *countless* number of times! On Aug 30th my daughter came in to take the medication for her lungs and lay down to stretch her legs I left her for 15 minutes came back to find her non responsive with spit coming out of her mouth EMS rushed her to the hospital where for 2 days she was so unstable you could not have lights on in the room where she was or her heart rate would drop, her body temp started dropping so much so that they needed to put her on a "bear hugger" finally after 2 days and me making numerous requests she was finally transfered and on 9-3-2007 it was deemed that my daughter my reason for breathing for so many years was brain dead from a seizure she it had suffered killed off all brain stem function. So check this out before you complain and do the poor "me" routine we all have stories some worse then others and it is how we live through and come out of these "stories" that make us who we are. Stop hating on someone that you do not even know because they are pregnant if you have this much anger in you again as EVERYONE that has answered this question has responded "GET HELP" now you assme I have no life experiance I sit and laugh at you because what I went through and what my daughter went through for 14 yrs will cast a HUGE shadow over anything you have to say and I hope and pray you can find the peace inside of you to release your hate and move on in life. No one in life owes you anything and if youve achived all you claim you have then be happy with your life and stop letting this bs with Nichole Richie eat you up


I just read another one of your posts why are you so bitter about EVERYTHING. Your question about "abortion" how can you let people that you have never met determine should you become pregnant should you get an abortion. I had both my children both were born into a finacially stable home, I own 2 homes (one in tx one in nd) I get to travel and I love life. But as I stated before we all have trails in our life. When my daughter was diagnosised terminally ill I worked 60 hrs a week (40 at the hospital and 20 waiting tables!) to save up for the transplant she needed because they would not do the procedure if I did not have a certain percentage up front. But do I hate everyone that had been able to obtain a transplant? NO. DO I hate ppl that caused harm to their own bodies such as those needing liver transplants because they were alcoholics, no I do not. As a CHRISTIAN as you claim you are not to judge and all you do is judge, act hostile and immature. Grow up honey the world owes you NOTHING!

Yes its me again replying to your latest edit. There are two things in life you can *chose* to do let your past rule you or let your future become you. Youve made a choice to stay in the past and that really is ashame because Im sure deep down inside beyond the bitterness and hate you are a decent person


PS I use the term "little girl" very loosely not by your age but how you act.

Answer 2

First of all, seek therapy. You are a very bitter, angry woman and it shows all too clearly in your posts.

Secondly, why the hell do you care if Nicole Richie is with child? You had a SCARE which to me would indicate you didn't WANT to have a child. If you wanted to be pregnant you wouldn't say you were scared, let alone worry about not getting support or encouragement. Seriously, you're far too up on your damn high horse.

So she's pregnant. Big deal. She and her boyfriend have the financial means to afford it. Good for her. Although I am no fan of hers I do hope she, the father and her child do well.

Third, DON'T assume someone is immature simply because they're younger than you. I am 26, happily married, financially stable, emotionally stable, in a great career, great friends, etc. I am by no means immature simply because my biological age reads 26. I have friends who are 19-20 years old and are incredibly mature and stable for their age.

In the posts I have read from you it is obvious that you are the one who is immature, not to mention bitter, angry, and insecure.

Answer 3

I have read every single one of your previous questions and I have to first say my condolences to Texas for the loss of her child. Secondly you seem to have some serious issues. You are always so bitter in all your questions and responses to what people have to say in regards to your questions. Regardless of if you have a bachelors in Biochemistry (if I'm correct) you have a lot of growing up to do, A LOT! You need to let go of your anger and move on. You sit on line and ask "should you get an abortion" and the only thing I have to say is if your this angry in real life as you are on line I'd hate to be your child.

Answer 4

How do you know she is doing drugs while she is pregnant???? Let me guess you read it in some $1.99 magazine at the grocery store didnt you?

Sounds to me like you are a little jealous of her. Ok so she did drugs and drinks people make mistakes in their life. God gave her that child for a reason and maybe that reason is to change her life. Dont assume she is not going to care for that child for all you know she is going to be a better mother than you ever dreamed of.

Let it go you dont even know the girl and start worrying about your own problems that you obviously have.

Answer 5

I think you might need some theraputic help. Why would a complete stranger's pregnancy upset you so? Stop obsessing over the lives of celebraties and prepare yourself for motherhood, if this is what you really want. Your hatred is unhealthy and hurts no one but you! I could really care less about any of these celebutants, but if a happy pregnancy and relationship is what it takes to straighten this young woman out, the God Bless it! Who are you to question God's will? I seriously doubt that you have ever lost anyone to drugs, or else you would not so ghoulishly cheer for the death of an addict! Remember, it is considered a disease, and you cannot judge someone without walking in their shoes! Will pray for you!

Answer 6

Could care less... You have way too much time on your hands if you're this stressed out over Nicole Richie. Does this really have that big of an impact on your life? I don't think she needs or cares whether she has "our" support or not. Deal with your own life and stop worrying about what your read in the tabloids.

Answer 7

I think it's pretty unfortunate, but **** happens.
The sad thing is that Joel Madden claims to be soooo Christian, so now he's forced to marry her, and they want to do it before the baby pops out, so what? It saves his soul if he's married before the kid is born?
It's sad because their marriage will not last, and that child is going to be so incredibly messed up, if it even manages to go to full term.
Nicole is so tiny that she has to be at an extreme risk through her pregnancy, on top of that fact that she smokes, drinks, and does drugs while she's pregnant.

Answer 8

Bitter?

I didn't realize that people would really be so angry about a person who they never met and will never meet in their lifetime.

How does this truly affect you? She didn't ask for your support. She doesn't know you, she doesn't care.

She might be a really great Mom. Look at Madonna. She was definitely not ideal Mom material! Now she's practically a billboard for Moms, lol.

No, I'm not mad. I don't care. :) It doesn't affect my life.

Answer 9

you sound really angry. i am ussually made happy by finding out someone is pregnant. i don't care much to find out about movie stars becoming pregnant because i don't really pay attention to them. get a grip and relax, u have no control over this girl.

Answer 10

I'm impressed at your rage. I don't have enough time in my day to worry about stuff like this. I like your passion!