Lately Ive been finding myself at my local area strip clubs indulging in lap dances. This week along, Ive managed to drop $400 at the strip club. Ive been going to strip clubs off and on for 11 years and sometimes it gets out of control. Ive spent tens of thousands of dollars over 11 years. There would be a brief time frame like 2 months where I would not go and then I would end up back there spending hundreds in one night on lap dances, drinks, tipping at the stage . I think Im a normal guy and not different than any other guy out there. What do you think ?
2007-10-03 09:12:42 · 18 answers · asked by Black Jack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally, I don't see the point of pissing away money like you are to get teased by some hot chick. Find a better, more constructive, hobby. To answer your question.....YES THAT'S ALOT OF WASTED MONEY!
2007-10-03 09:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel L 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have the money then go ahead!! Because to me $50,000 is ALOT of money and I would crap myself if I managed to spend that much on strip clubs. But if you can afford that kind of thing then why not? I'm sure if any other guy had extra money like that, a strip club is the first place you'd find them (at least the guys I know)
2007-10-03 16:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by mary 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone has their indulgences. However, I would say that if this habit puts you into a considerable amount of debt that you ought to reevaluate how you spend your money. Take some time to think what else you could have spent all that money on.
I also think that if you are asking us about this that maybe you already know the answer yourself.
2007-10-03 16:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by whitesonnet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is bad. Can`t quite decide if you are addicted to the alcohol, the sex, but most likely it is the combination of the two. Normal men find committed relationships in which to have sexual release. You need to look carefully into your behavior patterns. You obviously are feeling uncomfortable with your actions. This is the first indication you need to do something about your behavior. Good luck, do what you need to do to be the person you want to be. You are worth all the effort
2007-10-03 16:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by always b natural 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are a dam fool for that. and if no body told you that, then i will.
what is wrong with you. don't you have bills to pay or pay for something around the house or every you may live. do you have a dog or a cat or something or any kids to take care of, or a lady friend to take out if not.
then find one.
if you want to go broke because of a club you are crazy.
get some bonds from the bank and better your life with it.
you can do better then that man.
2007-10-03 16:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by map 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet these lap clubs, and girls just love you. Taking you for a ride. I can just hear them girl's now "Here come the loser here" quick get over and dance near him, and make sure you get the $100 from him. But sadly behind your back they saying” he can't get a date" If he could why would he be in here. Black Jack it’s tell a lot about you. You can't form relationship with women. By going to these clubs you don't form a relationship with these women. Ok you could you this argument that they chat to you. But remember they paid to chat to customers.
P.S this is what Black Jack sent me in email
From: Black Jack
Subject: strip club
Message: Can you dance for me for $100. Give me a 15 minute VIP dance with a bottle of champaigne !
Jack go and F*** off! Welcome to my blocked list.
2007-10-03 16:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by Feis Ort 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got a serious problem, and it's not normal at all. You have an addiction that is costing you a lot of money and you could use some therapy asap. At least you've made the first step and you've gotten to the point where you're BEGINNING to realize you have a problem. Do something about it.
2007-10-03 16:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hola at cha girl and let me know where your going, I might go fully clothed and go work the pole for you too.So might a few of my friends go make a few extra dollas. IF it dont make cents it dont make dollas.. lol. I think you need a wife or a GIRLFRIEND. Thats the equivelent of like a car, or a down payment on a house divided 50,000 is the same as spending about $5000 a year! If its bringing you happiness and its not affecting your marriage, your finances I guess its ok.
2007-10-03 16:24:51 · answer #8 · answered by Queen of the Scene 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think ypu'rea ddicted to that stuff! why dont you find yourself a gf! it's definitely going to cost you less, be more meaningfull, and hey if yoy pay her all that money she;s going to do evry thing you want!
seriously now, you' ve lost control. it's a bad thing for sure.
2007-10-03 16:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by metafrastria 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men who spend so much money on women who sell themselves have insecurities about their own performance and anxiety over relationships. so yea, this isn't a good thing. but i bet the strippers love it.
2007-10-03 16:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋