things but cant, because I eman there are some really attratctive ones out there, how do I tihnk of other stuff bgesdiues females and sexual fantasies
2007-10-03 09:09:05 · 16 answers · asked by Hem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because I mean i want to clear and free my mind and think about other things it is flashed in your face so much I just want to think about other things for a while and perhaps stop masturbating for a few months as well, how do I do this?
2007-10-03 09:12:20 · update #1
if you have a problem like that just talk to your friends and just don't reply back that much and pay attention to them and she or them will go out of your mind and NEVER write in a journal i know it doesn't work it just ruins it more
good luck
2007-10-03 09:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by indianbeauty13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some very immature and insensitive ideas on here about this subject isn't there, and it isn't going to help you.Lots of us, young and old are infiltrated by the sex industry and find it extremely difficult to ignore.The way you feel is perfectly normal and your hesitancy and worry is also very normal.The problem becomes, when you keep it to yourself and you begin to worry that your not normal.Trying to forget the subject of sex or trying to pretend it don't exist is a waste of time.It will only increase the desires that you have, multiply them, and you will become more focused on them, rather than focused on life.We all have sexual fantasies, especially men, and this is something quite normal, however, your desire to switch of, I think is because you feel guilty that you have these fantasies and are unable to fulfill your wishes.Of course, I do not mean that you want to engage in a porn style rendevouz...but you want a girlfriend.?Thats perfectly normal.While becoming overwhelmed within these thoughts, and you're only world, you are internalising, thats is you are becoming self obsessed.This is usually what happens in a situation like this and you sound very depressed.I would advise, concentrating not on the fact that you have never french kissed, although this is your desire, but the fact that there's opportunity for you at 24 to have that happen, anytime, and eventually it will, along with everything else.When we are young it's natural to worry about such things, but things do happen at their proper pace in life coz everyones's different.We all catch up eventually but at different rates.So, develop your good qualities as a man, look at what you do have to offer a woman and concentrate on that and the rest will follow naturally, I can promise you.
2007-10-08 05:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Develop an interest / hobby. Do an evening class, whatever. Just get on with life. Don't allow the search for someone to take over your life but do something for it from time to time like speed dating or online dating sites.
Although no one will ever admit it, I think you find that not everyone has had hundred of partners by their mid 20s (manner of speaking) which is what today's media would like to have people believe. Sexual promiscuity has its down sides too : just look at the soaring rates of sexually transmitted diseases for example.
Good luck!
2007-10-03 09:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by PRH1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To stop thinking about them, you should just make them realistic. Find yourself a GOOD girl that means one that doesn't get drunk everynight, and goes home with strangers. And don't go for the boring ones either. They really can't help anyone.
2007-10-03 09:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by Krissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a makeover, new wardrobe, shoes, hair, dentals... etc that should up your confidence.... and you should work on your talk as well, you NEVER call a Lady a female because thats just dorky.
2007-10-03 09:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by geetar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 24. You should be thinking about those things. And for god sake; FRENCH kiss a girl!
2007-10-03 09:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by bodmodangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for gosh sakes go get a friggin hooker. do it a couple of times and then you might have enough confidence to find someone. 24 , i would have had to switch to men if i had to wait that long. poor bastard good luck
2007-10-03 09:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the reason why you haven't had a relationship is that you have so much trouble getting clear thoughts expressed.
2007-10-03 09:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hire an escort and get it over with. That way maybe you wont think about it so much.
2007-10-03 09:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by Rick R , Super Duper Samurai 侍 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start your way from the 4s and 5s and move up. We just don't get to the top without practice man.
2007-10-03 09:12:30 · answer #10 · answered by NICK A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋