She chose a low cut gowns for her bridesmaids and she wants them all to look good in them. The wedding is already costing quite a bit. Should I try and not agree to this?
2007-10-03 04:56:40 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
HAHAAAAAAAAA!!!! OMG ! that's Hilarious! is she kidding or what? thats going to far now, serious...i mean, think about the starving children in africa! but seriously, you had me rollin'...thanks for the good laugh though!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-03 16:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by Authentic Believer (SOA) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you marrying a really spoiled incosiderate and self absorbed person. Good luck, I hope you love her and can live with her for the rest of your life. Now about the breast implants, I have implants. I paid for them myself too. What makes her think that these girls would actually want implants. I'm surprised she just doesn't hire women to pose as friends for the wedding. That would actually be cheaper. And a set of implants runs $4000 on the extemely low end and $10000+. I know I certainly wouldn't want to be your wife's friend. I'd find it horribly rude and offensive if she'd suggest such a thing. Maybe they're perfectly happy with their size. And to put them through such a RISK of surgery. And then if it wouldn't go well, you may be liabile for the corrective surgery since you paid for the orginal one. So many complications could appear. And this is a lifetime committment. 20 years from now when they need to be replaced what will they do then? Return to you for the money? I think your finance is absolutely nuts and what person in her right mind would suggest such a thing. No one! And then there's the cost of meds, warranties and temporary insurance. Your will should grow up. I still can't believe someone would actually consider doing this.
2007-10-03 13:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by lauriecherie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a fiance or the Financier?
What kind of shallow relationship are you two having? Before it's too late, you might want to take some time to consider why the two of you are together in the first place.
What other kinds of paying for stuff have you been doing?
I'm not blaming her only.
I know that sometimes people get a sense of security and even power from being the benefactor in a relationship.
All kinds of relationships, family, friends. It's okay to be loved for other reasons you know.
2007-10-03 05:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by I_digress 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm seriously hoping this isn't a for real question...
If it is--PLEASE don't marry this woman if you want to have any money--she's dreaming up ways to spend it now! I've heard crazy stuff--getting bridesmaids breast implants so they look good in their low cut (hopefully not skanky low cut--but it sounds like it is) gowns just about takes the cake. If her bridesmaids WANT to get breast implants, they can pay for it themselves. I would NEVER have surgery (that's pretty painful, btw) to satisfy a crazed BRIDEZILLA!!!
2007-10-03 05:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is probably the most ridiculous thing I've read today. If she's asking you to do that then you need to reconsider marrying her because obviously she's only looking at your wallet. Seriously, if you say your wedding is already costing quite abit and your debating breast implants?? Then I can already tell you probably spent alot more than us normal folks and that she is trying to manipulate you into your pockets for life or until divorce, so sign that prenup!!
2007-10-03 05:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by miladyrigel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to put your foot down on this one or else you will have her walking all over you for the rest of your life. Who cares what they look like? If they want implants tell them to get a second job and pay for them. That is not your responsibility. You need to be clear with your fiance that you are not doing this and that you want her to be happy but this is just going to far. She needs a reality check, this day is about you both, not them. Good luck to you!!!
2007-10-03 07:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by maria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LMAO! Are you serious??!??!
Don't agree to do something like that. If the bridesmaids are uncomfortable with the gowns then she needs to reconsider the style so that they feel comfortable.
I can't believe someone would actually ask someone else to pay for implants. Sounds like a coy plan to me.
2007-10-03 05:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by JD 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since the dawn of time "bridesmaids" have been collecting horrid-never-wear-them-again dresses.
It certainly is nice of your fiance to think in a different way, but come on, implants??????
Tell your fiance, "NO" and let her know that SHE is the only one that needs to "Stand Out"!!!
I wonder if your future mate has any concept of money. This would surely be a red flag.
2007-10-03 05:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question alone is ludicrous ! The fact that you need help w/ this question is even more bothersome. Hold off on this wedding and find a good place to think hard about this. I'm no fortune teller but if you go through with this you will find allot of bills for this kind off nonsense in your mailbox for years to come.
2007-10-03 07:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by "THE DEVIL" 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about they just buy padded push-up bras! Breast implants for the bridesmaids, just so they can "look good" in their dresses is completely beyond ludicrous. That would actually make me think twice about the person I was marrying if she were serious.
2007-10-03 05:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by LSU_Tiger23 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious??? Your fiance sounds like a "gold digger" if she is asking you to pay for some other girls breast implants so they will look good in a dress for her wedding. Good Lord. You need to find a new fiance, unless you like the idea of her using you for your money.
2007-10-03 05:07:33 · answer #11 · answered by Married Lady 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋