I've been on the dating scene for the past couple of years and have consistently come across women who are either A) insecure, B) too needy, C) doesn't have their own friends or hobbies, D) Doesn't have a career or any path set in life, E) Has no money of their own. Where can I find a girl that is not like any of the above?
2007-10-03 04:10:37 · 25 answers · asked by thecelldepot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay out of the bars and clubs! And stay away from the younger ones! Try to find a woman who is AT LEAST over 30. They are more stable in life.
Try looking in church, or at YOUR work, or join a book club (or other intellectual activity).
2007-10-03 04:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be dating 20-somethings, right? You want a girl that has her life more pulled together with some brains. I agree with whoever said stay away from the clubs or bars.
Those women you are talking about are out there. The smart confident ones?
Sometimes when women are young, they are lost, so some of the women you dumped may have it together 5 years from now, but in the mean time, they look for anyone to rescue them from their confusion.
2007-10-03 04:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What age group are you talking about? Because if you're talking about women in their early to mid-20s, you're not being realistic. Most people in that age range, including men, don't meet a lot of that criteria. A, B and C are probably the most reasonable criteria. Goals are good even if they're vague. Money shouldn't be an issue unless the girl starts relying solely on you.
2007-10-03 04:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to find all 5 is a rarity. if you were going to settle for 4 out of 5 or 3 out of 5, then take D and E off the list and concentrate on A, B, C...insecure, needy women with nothing to do but hang on your every move gets real old real quick.
2007-10-03 04:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by jmarcus74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k not all girls are like that so my suggestion is start looking where u would have never thought to look....like going to work in the morning or walking to the park or at the grocery store...any where and then figure out just what u want in a girl and then look for those types of girls....they are out there u just have to keep ur eyes open and most likely u will find her when u aren't even lookin she will come find u and it will be like u had no idea until it happend....then u knew
good luck
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2007-10-03 04:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by !~!GoTHPuNkChICk!~! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible bro, but yes now a days it is a little more difficult than it use to be........ the best thing to do is to try to accept a girl that only has one of those qualities and then try to help her fix it, just the way the do w/ us......... they always try to change us......... i'm not saying spend 3yrs on some girl trying to mold her into being perfect , but i'm just saying if you cant get one that's 100% then get one thats 80%+ and try to work w/ that, if that other 20%+ doesn't come around then try to find another one........... it's kinda like finding a car that you like but it doesn't have the rims u want, but everything else is perfect; what are you not going to buy the car? of course u are, but all you gotta do is throw some new rims on it........ good luck bro!
2007-10-03 04:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You named several things that you don't want this girl, that you are looking for to possess. It seems to me that if this is so hard to find that maybe a nice and normal girl has nothing to do with the things you described. Are you looking for a nice girl or are you looking for someone who doesn't need anything from you? Where can she be found? She's in your mind!
2007-10-03 05:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by Bejean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should probably look in grad school classes (assuming you are that age), or at events that organizations hold for certain students studying certain things...like a couple of weeks ago I went to an event for law school students and I know that there are events for med school students and a lot of other kinds of students as well...you can also look in your workplace (assuming you work) to find a woman who has already reached her career goals...good luck
2007-10-03 04:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not find them in bars. Try museums and social events.
Join a club where you will meet people who have the same interests as you. Good luck
2007-10-03 04:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how old u are and were are u looking. if your in your early 20's dont go to partys or to the night clubs you go to the book store find a cutie and actually get to know her. We dont all want a horndog guy hitting on us treat us with respect and we'll treat you with saying yes
2007-10-03 04:14:09 · answer #10 · answered by funnlovingblonde 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋