If you were not speaking to your son or daughter and they would not let you see your grand-child would you call the kids mother/father to visit them while they were at their house? Do you think this would make the situation with your child worse? How would you handle this? This question is based off Brittney Spears and her mother, and I just wondered how people in the real world would handle this.
2007-10-03 04:10:10 · 14 answers · asked by laceyluedwards 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Honestly, I think that in her situation, the reason for her not being able to see her kids is nauseating and selfish.
If I had grandkids, and my daughter and I were not getting along for personal reasons, I would do whatever I had to do to see them. Including going through the ex.
If the grandmother had put the kid's life in danger, that's one thing. But being a selfish child is another one.
I couldn't imagine my daughter's grandparents not being in her life!
2007-10-03 04:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Heck if I know! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are 2 different subject concerns right here: a million. loss of courtroom ordered charge, which i've got faith to be a legal in Texas. ( i could desire to be incorrect on that one, yet i don't think of so ) She does not % an lawyer to document a "failure to pay" declare against the two ex. That stated, using an lawyer could be useful. additionally, she is going to could have fantastic documents of all funds and scarcity thereof. 2. Husband "X" makes extra now than he did whilst the scientific medical doctors have been initially drawn up. In maximum states, that doesn't remember. he's merely certain via the unique settlement ( Which he's not at the instant upholding ) She has no suitable to any added monies till she ( with using an lawyer ) petitions the courtroom & shows merely reason as to why the unique settlement could be altered. this is uncommon for a courtroom to overturn the unique documents. Her undesirable judgement with regards to adult males aside, she could probable hold an lawyer & preserve the two subject concerns on the comparable time. If she would be in a position to not have the money for an lawyer, she could touch criminal help in her county for information. solid success to her.
2016-11-07 03:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by scasso 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom and I finally got to see my 3 nephews and 1 niece this past easter . We hadnt seen them since easter of 2002. Since my brother was the one brainwashing his wife to keep the kids away from all of us , while he ws in jail my mom started speaking to his wife again and we finally got to see them. We never met the 2 youngest until this past easter as they are only 3 and 2 yrs old. It was well worth it. We're all speaking again, brother included since he's outta jail and we all ate dinner together last night at my mom's house. It was nice. My bro his wife and their 4 kids, me my hubby and my two kids and my mom and step dad. we decorated her front porch for halloween and ate dinner. It was great. I know sometimes it might sound shady but as a family , we need to do whatever we can to make sure we take care of eachother.
If that means going behind one our own childrens backs to see our grandkids then so be it. And if push comes to shove there's always the court system to help with grandparents rights. alot of times grandparents are the second parent. I had my first child when i was 19 back in 02 and I lived with my mom for 2 yrs before I met my hubby and I dont know what I would have done had it not been for my mom. She was there for me and my daughter constantly. She still is to this very day. I think people who have children at such a young age get a chip on their shoulder and think just because they're barely grown and living on their own with kids that they dont need their own parents anymore and that's just sad. Ok sorry for the ranting..
2007-10-03 04:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by adrianne M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex's mom did that for over 5 years. He wouldn't have anything to do with her so she would come to my house once a month to see her 2 grandkids. It was a little awkward but we made it work for the kids. Si it can be done and it is in the kids best interest.
2007-10-03 05:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lostlove 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think Grandparents are the most important to children
I would never keep my children away from their grandchild
Saying that, I would call my child and then know you would like contact. You can get have contact without see the parents.
Some advice, life is short. If anything ever happen to the child, and you are not speaking, how will you feel
2007-10-03 04:18:59 · answer #5 · answered by Halo Mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not because that would be extremely disrespectful to my child and most definitely would make it worse. If my mother was to do that I would probably freak out and lose any shred of respect I may have had for her. But then again, I would only prevent her from seeing them for something huge, that I felt she should not be around them for their good.
2007-10-03 04:19:18 · answer #6 · answered by iamhis0 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well depends on the state .. you can file to have visitation some states do this .. the situation would not be the kids it would be between the 3 parties the ex wife ex husband and the grand parent there would be difficulty there and it depends on if you want to ruffle feathers or not
2007-10-03 04:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by jgilbertdo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex's family has recently disowned him because of his behavior (drinking, physical abuse, etc). I do not particularly care for his family, but they have always (even before the problems) gone through me to have the kids spend the night or just go have lunch on a weekend afternoon.
2007-10-03 05:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by Leah R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go through whoever to see my grandchildren! I would seek an attorney and go through the courts if need be! So, going through an ex is not a problem. My child would have to try to understand, it was not what I did that created the problem; it was her/him and I would see my grandchildren regardless of how they felt about it!
2007-10-07 12:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by candycrystal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course! The grandkids still deserve to see their grandparents (and vice versa), even if one parent happens to be out of the picture right then.
2007-10-03 04:17:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋