How does one completely destroy their sexuality?

Question

You look around and see LOTS of things to Increase sexuality & sexual desire. But, how do you decrease it?
I would prefer to completely get rid of all sexual desire. I find it is a waste of time that has absolutely no rewards at all. I have no use for sex, nor do I wish to have any use for it. I can't have kids, nor do I want them. I will never attract any kind of mate. So, quite frankly, I don't think I should have to be bothered by the distraction of sexual desire. How do I get rid of it?

Can't have kids because I don't have a uterus (and I don't want them anyway).
I am NOT asking for advice. I just want to destroy all sexual desire. It gets in my way & I have no use for it.

Answer 1

Dear Cyanne,
Talk to your MD about a prescription for "Anti-androgens "
Hugs,
PennyAnn

Answer 2

For males there is chemical castration however I don't see a way to turn off female hormones. Sexuality is also controlled in the brain and if you don't want a sexual relationship but still get sexual desires that need to be relieved then there is always the Sex in the City girls favorite Jack Rabbit Vibrator.

Sir Willi these two should be together, just as long as they dont produce children, Lord what a thought....

Answer 3

Sexual desire is only needed when you are totally in love with someone. Give it a few years of arguing over money, food, space and just plain getting old and it does go away.
Media wants to attract attention with sex because sex sells-it can be ignored.
I really don't see that you have a problem unless you are constantly reminded that you want to have sex by physical means.
Read some books about Buddhism and Amish society.
If you have a plan, support your plan and don't pay attention to what everyone wants you to think other wise!

Answer 4

Instead of removing things why don´t you try adding. It´s rather hard to imagine that you are so lacking that you will never attract anyone. Even if you are not good looking, and I don´t know if this is true, them you can still concentrate on your body.Anyone can have a great body if they put in enough work.It seems as though you have low self esteem but if you see improvements then that will change also. Remember that a journey of 1000 miles begins with a single step.You really should change your attitude and become more positive about things. Good luck.

Answer 5

Not sure whats going on here hun but WOW you sound completely p issed! How on earth do you know that you "will never attract any kind of mate" and are yoou 100% sure that you cant have children!

I think maybe you need to talk to someone huni failing that join a convent or something. sexual arousal is a natural feeling (and a bloody good feeling too I might add as well as a great stress reliver) and not something you can stop naturally.

Answer 6

Reproduction is one of the results of sex, but it is certainly not the only reason or purpose for humans to have sex. We are one of the few types of animals who have sex for pleasure. If you do not gain pleasure from it, you should not force yourself to participate. It would be a waste of your time, just like you said. Perhaps if you do want children some day you could adopt. That would certainly relieve you of the burden of carrying and giving birth after 9 months.

There are certain foods (or rather ingredients in foods) that can increase one's sexual desire. Some companies market pills for women with a variety of natural ingredients to help stimulate the gentials and increase natural lubrication of the vagina. Perhaps you could research what these ingredients are, so you could make sure to avoid them in your diet.

However I would not recommend trying something like this. Human sexuality is very natural and healthy. Your desire seems a little unrealistic. It's almost like wishing to completely remove your appetite for food. You can set your watch to alert you for feeding times, so you don't really need your body to let you know that you are hungry in order to remember to eat. Or perhaps you would like to never feel like you have to use the rest room. You simply set your watch again and then go sit on the toilet when the time is right. I'm not so sure that removing natural instincts and desires is the right way to go. Do you really want to be a robot?

One of the things that makes humans more advanced than most animals is the complexity of our brains which gives us the ability to make conscious decisions to act against our natural instincts. You do not have to respond to your body's natural impulse to engage in mating rituals. You can practice "mind over matter" and learn to act the way you want rather than how your body wants you to act.

Answer 7

If you have a sexual desire then I think that it's because you want to have sex. There are many women out there that don't have sex what so ever. So if you dont want to have sex then just dont do it. Just like things can turn you on things can turn you off. So thing about the things that turn you off.

Answer 8

SSRI antidepressants - such as Prozac - will completely trash your sex drive and ability to orgasm.

I went on Seroxat when I was in my 20s because I didn't have a partner and I was sick of getting sexually aroused with no prospect of actually having sex. I told my doctor I felt depressed and he issued the script.....simple.

Answer 9

If you stay with one subject and one mind on one thought that is all you will see.

if your bothered by sex or because sex does not become you your not at change of heart, but change of disposition.

You are what you are be it male or female and you know what your gender does.

Should you choose to refrain from sex and choose celabacy that is your choice.

Beauty is skin deep for what goes in your mouth does not defile you it's what comes out of your mouth that defiles you.

I will never attract any kind of mate.......who say's that is you, but what if a mate is found to be attracted to you against your will?

How will you approach that?

Will you jump for joy or scorn them that they decieve you for any purpose other than self reliance in hope of change or diversified useage of honor in trust with whom ever chooses you?

Likewise as the gentiles once gone through change to capture one that is favored in heart, but not one that scorned beyond change.
You're the light of spirit and that spirit in you is as beautiful that the eyes cannot see and refrain from what the eye do see.
Your gift is not shared until you decide to share it and that my friend is matter of choice.

Which road do I choose now?

Choose the road that is smooth and not bumpy right?

Wrong!

The bumpy road is one that stops people in their tracks because of a storm it became bumnpy, but on the other side it was as smooth as can be and the smooth road became bumpy and frail that ended in a cliff that drops.

What you see is not always deceiving, but it can be very rewarding for those who seek the right path in their life and choose that bumpy road that becomes smooth.

Answer 10

You must of had a bad experience and don't want to show it that way and you are neglecting yourself to have a happy sexual life with another person.
Your lesbian and can live a good sex life if you let it be that way.
Take care