my all time low?

Question

I hate everything and everyone! I'm soo damn lonely.. when i go to school, no-one talks to me.. When I go home, my parents just make wierd faces, and still dont talk to me.. It's up to the point where I cant even do good in school.. I'm failing everything! I talked to them about taking me to the doctor atleast, but they have refused many times... What do i do?? Who do i go to?

Answer 1

Is it everyone else's fault that you're failing or are you willing to take responsibility for your actions? Are you waiting for other people to take you in hand and tell you to be happy or are you willing to take some action to get yourself where you want to be? Does no one talk to you because you don't talk to them? Does everyone avoid you because you hate them?

I used to be you when I was in high school and I've learned many valuable lessons in the many years since. The most important lesson I learned is that other people are wrapped up in their own lives and they don't want to take responsibility for making your life work.

In other words, you have to decide how you want your life to be and take steps to make it that way. Don't wait for someone else to take you by the hand and make your life better. It won't happen.

It does sound like you could use some counseling. If your parents won't take you to a doctor, take yourself to a school counselor. They can help you get started with sorting out some of this stuff. Another thing you can do is write. Writing is very healing. You get to say anything and everything that's going on in your mind. You get to yell and curse at your parents without being punished and you get to let out all your anger and hurt.

You have a lot of stuff going on in your mind. The quickest way to start healing is to take all that stuff out of your mind and do something with it. The safest way to get it all out is to write. No one else has to see what you write. This can be your private world. Who knows, you may even be able to turn it into a book or a movie some day.

The important thing is that you do something. Don't wait for someone else to do something to fix you. You take the bull by the horns and do something different from feeling sorry for yourself. If no one at school talks to you, you start up a conversation with them. If your parents make wierd faces, ask them why they do that. Start up a conversation about the faces they make. Or make faces back at them.

You're not a victim. You're a very powerful person who has the ability to do anything you put your mind to. If you put your mind to being an outsider, that's what you'll be. Put your mind to being a special person who has lots of friends and believe it or not, that will start to happen. Stop hating everyone and go talk to someone today.

Answer 2

Go talk to your school consolor. If you hate everyone and everything, how can you expect people to respond to you in a positive fashion. You need to make up your mind that you are not the person that you want to be for the rest of your life and start making changes. Join a club, help someone with something (like picking up a dropped book - it's a start), say "hi" to your parents when you walk in the door and ask about their day. Little changes can add up fast, but it will take work and you won't see results immediately.

Answer 3

Go to the school nurse and tell her you are suffering from low self-worth, feel hopeless and isolate yourself from everyone. Perhaps a call from her to your parents stating that you are suffering from depression and need medical attention will motivate them to call your doctor.

In the meantime, think about the following: To have a friend, you first must be a friend. As you feel better about yourself, it will show in your actions. Reach out to others and ask for help. That takes more courage then staying silent.

You can do this - good luck.

Answer 4

Go to a school counsellor and get them to help you. And, when you go to school, just try and be friendly and talk to people. That way you'll start to get to know people and find people you click with. They might not all be responsive but it's worth a good shot.
And just try talking to your parents. Tell them that they are being impolite to you and ignoring you and it hurts your feelings.
And then try talking to the teachers of each subject and getting extra help, maybe see if you can arrange a tutor. I wish you all the best.

Answer 5

Hating everything and everyone sure won't help you. Smile more and have a positive outlook, that helped me. I was always the one to start a conversation. I would say Hi to people I didn't know and if I knew their name I would say Hi and their name. People don't like angry people. As for your parents, they need to be supportive of you.

Answer 6

please talk with your school counselor, or a teacher you trust and respect....

perhaps in talking with someone, such as the counselor, he or she can help you talk with your parents about this, in a group session?

if you are depressed, it's not your fault. depression is sometimes a chemical imbalance, and sometimes a reaction to our life situation.

whatever the case, you do deserve to feel better and to get to a doctor if that is what you would like to do.

i hope you get some good answers here, also. take care of YOU... ok? hugs

Answer 7

the face you are trying to trace is a face we had a deep pain intracing it.
it is all about you, you see the world from your window but the life is different. I had a similar case before.........
my advise is to wake up early and have your breakfast and tell your self I want to smile today okay. I want to smile today.........repeat.. no matter what will happen I'll keep on smiling today...........
try it................ see how your day will be.
I want you to tell me what may happen to you then.
email me.... okay!

Answer 8

Do you attend church? It is one place where you will find people who will reach out to you. Why not try for a change.