Do you ever feel depressed/lonely?

Question

I feel like that today...it happens after every social event I go to. I'm a quiet person, so I have a hard time socializing...

I guess I mainly don't like myself, and i've never had a boyfriend. It's all very frusterating for me, there's all these issues in my head right now....So that's why I feel this way..Does anyone else feel depressed/lonely? =(

Answer 1

sometimes i feel depressed and lonely even though i have a husband and 2 beautiful children-how mad is that!!

Answer 2

i get like that too sometimes...i get easily depressed and i think and worry about everything to death!...sometimes realizing that you feel down is the first step to getting better...focus on what your triggers are. this works well for me...you say you're quiet and that you feel depressed after social affairs and you've never had a boyfriend...it may seem like a simple or even meaningless question, but how important are these things to you?? seeing as this is what you wrote about, they must be pretty big for you...what is it about being quiet that affects you so much?? honestly, the first step to not feeling so awkward around people is to break out of your comfort zone. next time you're in a social situation, be social, talk, strike up a conversation. and if not having had a boyfriend yet is that frustrating, again, be social. the only way you'll ever meet someone is by taking the risk and putting yourself out there. it will be awkward and even maybe terrifying at first. and you may feel like you're doing it all wrong, but really it'll get easier and you'll start meeting people. people you can relate to. people who could become friends and guys to date. trust me, you'll find where you fit in. you really just have to try when it comes to somethings. don't just wait around hoping for life to find you. make it happen...

Answer 3

I have to presume (from the layout you have presented), you are a teenager. If this be so, you have the rampant hormonal ragings which is normal at this time. Leaving you often in a state of confusion. You also become introverted as a protective mechanism. Is why you have so much trouble talking to your folks.. they never understand, right? Although they all went thru the same thing in their transitional years. Interject independence raising its necessary influence into the picture and you can get a pretty good idea of the consternation that is presently being experienced. What to do about it!! It becomes important that you accept the maturity factor which is trying to impose itself into your life and then, talk to your folks like an adult. Rather than a complaining child. And be sure and not use the phrase, "you just don't understand"..... they do if you are able to express yourself so they can understand what you are meaning.

Answer 4

I used to feel that way all the time until i realized it was all in my head. i never had a boyfriend for the longest time and thought something was physically wrong with me! that i was ugly or something...i used to say "if i dont get a boyfriend by the time i graduate high school im getting a nose job!" (i have a big nose!) but it wasnt true. I'm very quiet too, and also would get depressed after social situations, but I recently found out i have social anxiety disorder. It is such a difficult thing to live with and makes every social situation feel impossible to face. if you want some info on it you can go here: http://www.socialanxietyinstitute.org/. hopefully you dont have that like me. but what you do need to realize is everyone is beautiful. i know it sounds cliche and is really hard to accept, but i know that with me, as soon as i fix one thing i dont like about myself i think about something else i dont like. you cant change yourself, so you just have to accept who you are and love yourself. i love my big nose now! (haha) besides...everyone else is always worried about themselves anyway...so most likely no one notices the things you are insecure about because they are thinking about their own insecurities! everyone feels that way sometimes...so try not to worry about it :)

Answer 5

Yeah, because I'm up so late at night. I bet if I was a day person I wouldn't be. There's less to do at night. It usually goes away on it's own though, after a few hours of feeling that way. Sometimes my stomach hurts so bad I have to get out of bed with nearly no sleep at all. It doesn't hurt if I sit or stand, only when I lay down.

Answer 6

Sure , I feel depressed & lonely sometimes, but it's best to be around others, especially positive others. & if you've got a church group , that' d be great.

All the issues can be worked out With God's help. & maybe a councelor.

take Youth & enjoy, dont worry about a boyfriend right now.
Live.

Answer 7

I get depressed cause husband goes sleep at 7pm every night and i set hear all alone,if wasn,t for Y/A that helps me relax i be very up set 7 days a week set at night no one talk to.

Answer 8

Yes, and I permit myself 30 minutes every day to have a pity party and then I make myself feel more postive and try and help another person as that makes me forget my problems and it is a great re ward to help others.

Answer 9

u don't have to see it something bad or be sad from ur self,i'm a quiet and shy person,i know how u feel,i had long time without gf and not get close to ppl fast,it be worry that i talk free or appear bold,that make u have respect to ur self, u don't have to be worry about no bf or not sociaty,u will get what wrote to u ,so don't worry. not by talkative u get guys or frineds,who said that they are more happy,just have respect to ur self and who u trust in open ur heart to and be free since will understand u. trust in ppl untill they show thier badness

Answer 10

Yes i felt that way for along time and i realized that i had to get up and do what i needed to do and get what i needed to get
so i say get up and get the things you wont. for you are not any different then any one else.
I hope you have a great day and if you claim that it will be!