does it hurt?

Question

im 15. does sex hurt for the first time? what about the second time? how bad does it hurt? do you bleed? is it scary?

Answer 1

yes it does hurt but their are things you can do to make it less painful also you can bleed but not all girls do . and the first few times you have sex it hurts but after that it get better and does not hurt . but if it is your first time you can use lots of lube . have lots of foreplay , make sure your partner goes slow and doe snot want to hurt you and relax it hurts more if you don't are stressing your body . but it should not be scary you will like it as long as the person you do it with you love and they love you too

Answer 2

It all depends on the woman....for some, it hurts; for other, it doesn't. A lot of it depends on how much "activity" has been going on down there and if her hymen is still intact. My first time wasn't that bad, but that wasn't the first "activity" down there. He had been fingering me and I'd been masturbating for years prior which helped to stretch things out a little down there. I'd give it a 2-3 on a scale of 10 with 10 being unbearable. The second time hurt a little, but less than the first. It felt kind of like a pinch or something. It was a little uncomfortable for about a minute or two, but that's it. I did not bleed until my third and fourth times, but it was just basically spotting. Not everyone bleeds. I was definitely nervous, but I was with someone I loved and who loved me so I was comfortable about that. Although, you are too young to have sex. I was 27.

Answer 3

Your question is very common among young people. I'll start by telling you that it doesn't hurt men the first time, but you probably knew that already. It may hurt women; it depends on a couple things.

Women are born with a hymen, which is a membrane, which either completely or partially blocks the vaginal opening. Having sex for the first time will break this membrane. The hymens existence in women was once used to confirm or deny her virginity; however, in today's world there are many ways other than sex to break it. The use of tampons, sexual activity other then sex, or even strenuous physical activity can result in a breaking of the hymen. If the hymen is fully intact breaking it during sex, it may hurt, or even bleed.

There are also other reasons for potential pain, often both parties are inexperienced and one or both members may be a bit too reckless, it need not be the first time for this reason to cause pain during sex. It is also possible that a body is not ready for such an undertaking, and pain may be the result.

Answer 4

For me yes sex did hurt for the first time. As a matter of fact every woman I have talked to said it hurt for the first time. Yes you bleed and for me it was very scary. I regret not waiting in the end. I was in love and I wanted to give him that very special gift from me. I know it sounds corny, but I wish I could have given that gift to my husband. If you have more questions you could try asking a parent or a friends parent. Maybe a teacher or school councelor that you trust.

Answer 5

yes sex hurts the first time. but thats just it theres only one first time your only 15 you never get that experience back trust me i was 15 when i lost mine and I'm telling you right now it's not worth it sex is wonderful and great but it is definetly worth the wait. besides sex is something to be taken seriously condoms break birthcontrol doesn't always work you wanna be a 15 yr. old mother ? that would be no fun at all. Wait untill your older enjoy being young and in love without the sex innocence is a terrible thing to waste.

Answer 6

I am not the one to answer this question.

It is my opinion that if you are on this site throwing this question out there for any jokester to answer, you're not old enough in terms of maturity to experience it.

Seriously, you should really sit down with your parents and let them explain "The Birds and the Bees" to you.
Sex can be very beautiful when experienced between two people that love each other.

While I feel that you are old enough to be talked to by an elder, it should be based on the signs of sexual abuse you should be on the look out for; situations that could harm you involving sexual predators.

Do have this conversation with your folks. They'll have your best interest in mind.

Answer 7

the first time i had sex it hurt so bad when he started to get in, im not gonna lie. but i was 13 so i was smaller and he was older and in my opinion huge. yes it was scary and i regreted it because i knew i didnt want to and did it anyways. i bled there was some blood like the day after and i was sore. i can honestly say that i havt had sex since then, but not because it hurt, but it felt wrong. so i cant tell ya how it is the second time sry. but make sure its what you want before you decide to have sex. it changes everything in the relationship and how you feel about yourself.

Answer 8

having sex is the first time is the most important decision a gal can make. it is scary the first time and it does hurt. as for how bad it hurts it depends on your lover if he is rough or gentle. the truth is the second time will still hurt not as much as the first time though but if you wait too long after the first time, second time can really hurt. thsi is based on my personal experiences

Answer 9

There is a horrifying hadith of Prophet(pbuh) I have no idea the precise phrases however the hadith is that If a Muslim see an oppression and makes a decision to not do whatever approximately it, does not condemn the acts of the oppressor by way of his center or by way of his speech have the bottom degree of Emaan.

Answer 10

HONESTLY.. dont start thinking about that now.. ur going to have plenty of time, and plenty of boys to do all that... give it time, the boys now are just that.. BOYS. You can be better, dont just give it up, its something u can never get back. Odds are, your not going to stay with the same person u give it up to, unless you wait. It can hurt, but not for all. And it really depends on how much the "boy" LOVES you, and boys right now dont know what that is.. they just feel something in thier pants.. and think they need to act on it.. every body is different. everyone experiences different things. Please, know: TRUE LOVE WAITS.