i have this friend that had a baby with this bipolar girl, she was all crazy so he couldnt stay. he barelly sees the baby and his ex move to another state cause she did a lot of bad things and she has a warrant for arrest, but she remarried and just had another baby leaving her 1st baby abandoned with her parents. what will happen to this baby when it grows up ?
2007-10-02 15:14:37 · 15 answers · asked by edie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
You will see what happens. I still think it's better for the kid to be raised by someone, this case is her parents, who is more responsible for the parenting role than her.
2007-10-02 15:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the people who raise it and how they treat the child.
her first child may find out that its mama abandoned it but not its sibling and there will probably be some resentment about that. that will cause it to have trust issues later in life. there is a possibility that the girl may get help and she might take her child back. it's hard to say.
sounds like the child might be better off with the grandparents, though if those two are so unstable.
2007-10-02 22:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by georgiegirl422 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As someone from a screwy family, I can tell you there is always such a feeling of loss and abandonment. Anger even. And it makes it hard to bond. hopefully though the grandparents are kind loving people and the child will grow up in a stable home though, that can make a difference
2007-10-02 22:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by paperpenandtea 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the mother's parents are just as dysfunctional as she is....it's best you pray God protect the child, because they'll likely be groomed into living a hellish existance.
The child will most ceratinaly grow to vehemently hate mom....not to mention likely live his/her own life on the skids.
However, wacko mom's parents may be law abident, honest, decent people.....and in that--the child may stand a good chance at a good life; they'll likely still hate mom, though.....and maybe they should.
2007-10-02 22:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor child. Lets just hope that he is better off with his grandparents. Most likely he will grow up spoiled (as most grandparentds tend to spoil their grandchildren).
Growing up he might accumulate lots of anger and resentment towards his biological parents. Rightfully so.
2007-10-02 23:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by Laura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's his child , he could sue for custody . Maybe her grandparent are good for her. It's hard to tell what will happen, that will depend on the inner strength of the child and what kind of person she wants to become when she grows up.
2007-10-02 22:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by fuzzykitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that this child will have a lot of problems. I know a kid like this and he went to juvi multiple times. If his grandparents keep a watchful eye on him, i think he should be OK. If the father really cares, he should take the kid.
2007-10-02 22:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by confusion ! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the baby will probably be curiouse to know who its real parents are. but if the parents the baby was left with are good/or better people then it'll probably turn out better than it would have with than it would have with its crazy mom.
but then again. only time will tell. I just like to think positive.
2007-10-02 22:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by xxVoltz86 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully the grandparents will raise the baby right or the other parent will try to get custody!
2007-10-02 22:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by K T 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It'll be just like's its damn momma. Your friend is a jackass for being so selfish and abandoning that poor child. Oh well, its not like you care, your friends with the guy.
2007-10-02 22:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by sasha D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋