im 20 and guys are so SHOCKED when they find out im a virgin!!! why is that??? i met a guy really fell for and i told him i wanted him to be my first, even though i had a feeling he really didnt want anything serious. i was in denial because i really liked him and i knew he liked me too. But..... he didnt even try to which was good but really weird too most guys i met would jump at that!!! he told me he cares about me. but he said basically said in the begining he wanted to just mess around then he changed his mind, never brought it up and never tried. Then i quit calling and he would ride past my job and look at me then he texts me to make sure im not mad at him.
2007-10-02 15:03:27 · 14 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think this is a guy who realizes that saving this important step into intimacy is something valuable and worth saving if you are still a virgin at 20. That is not weired, it just isn't all that common. It sounds like he knows that being your first carries with it a certain level of responsibility to not allow it to be just "recreational sex" He understands that you say you are willing to give this to him but he has made it clear that he values this aspect as well, and is not got you in mind for that kind of a commitment, at least not right now.
2007-10-02 15:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think guys who are virgins either appreciate the girl being a virgin cos they will feel comfortable, or want an experienced woman to take control of them. I think a guy who has experience either wants a virgin girl because it is a control thing or a pride thing to take a girls virginity, others will want someone with the same level of experience so they can be sexually experimental. It depends on the guy.
2016-03-19 04:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all some guys only want one thing and then they leave and then go to find someone else. But some guys when you tell them they don't know how to act because they have never had a virgin beofre. ANd some just don't know how to be around a virgin, So want to chat more jsut IM me anytime and we can chat more.
2007-10-02 15:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever it is don't you give your virgin to him. if he really love he must respect with your decision. as a girl your virgin is just for a special men in your life. i mean a men that will be your husband. yes, virgn is attractive. virgin make you very special..very very special. so don't lose it. good looking is not enough to be a special but good looking and still have a virgn is very special. don't let he seduce to lose your virgin. you lose him is okay because you can find another men in your life but virgin just once in your life. FYI virgin can make men care about you
2007-10-02 15:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys feel more pressure not to hurt a girl somehow if they think they might be the girl's first partner. Other guys think that a girl is tighter and that it's like winning a trophy to get to be a girl's first. The guy that isn't sure he wants to be your first may actually be the more sensitive and honest guy.
2007-10-02 15:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by adam r 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And your still attracted to this bozo even though he said he just wanted to fool around with you a little? If a girl told me this, i would instantly forget she ever existed. You are in a grey area right now. Do you stand out as a virgin and wait till u get married(the right way) or do u just give your virginity away to any dimwit that you happen to have the hots for at the moment. Why not wait till u meet your husband on your wedding night and make that night one of the most memorable nights in history for u and for him????????
I know that is a strange thought in this day and age, but heck give it a try, you never know, you just might find true love.
2007-10-03 16:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by virgin 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
As one of the first things I learned from being a Muslim convert, is : being a virgin and woman , you are the jewel of your country.. be proud and stay virgin until your absolutely sure of what your doing.
2007-10-02 15:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by hiba 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the guy. Some guys don't like virgins, but others do.
2007-10-02 15:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thats good that ur still a virgin...its hard to find sombody like that now a dayz thats your age but thats good for u..thats attractive to me...
2007-10-02 15:17:15 · answer #9 · answered by guess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, he has good morals and respects the idea that you haven't slept around. Do yourself a favor and stay that way until you are married to the right person.
2007-10-02 15:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋