how do you get someone to tell you that they cheated on their bf/gf?

Question

I have a guy friend who is dating someone who I don't trust, and I heard from another friend that she saw her making out with another person. I told him about it, and he asked his gf about it and she told him that she didn't, yet I don't believe it. Now he's mad at my friend for supposedly lying. I was wondering if there is a way that maybe I could get her to tell me if she did or did not cheat on him. She is one of those people who likes to tell just about anyone everything. And I've heard that she cheated on some of her ex-boyfriends.

I also happen to care about my guy friend, and I want him to not hate my other friend.

Answer 1

Tricky, usually I'd tell you it doesn't matter their relationship will end just by its merit alone, leaving your hands clean. That aside I love manuplating stupid people! So here we go!

1. Talk about your experiences in cheating, make it sound like you got your crap together and that "I don't need no man telling me what to do" That can breck the ego sometimes.

2. If you know the guy in questions name, bring it up. Say something to her (of course ALWAYS pretend you don't know what happen) along the lines of "Man I made out with "name" the other day he sure sucks" Might want to go with good, read your instincts on that one.

3. Another possiblility is to maybe get her to think he is cheating, it might back-fire thou.... if she is true...

4. Question the relationship there end, make it sound like she deserves more and you might beable to get out of her, HOW she is getting more anyways.

Really this comes down to brecking her ego, make her believe that telling you for whatever reason, well make her look "Good" for some reason or another... manupilations really isn't a general thing you can do, you have to be able to read the person in question, but thats the template your looking for....