He kept telling me to shut up and he kept making fun of me. So i told him to F*** off. he said the same to me but we both said it with stars in text, and then i called to say something, but before my mouth could move he started laughing and said you told me to f off, and i got really offended, and it was like he was kidding around, but then he hung up. i was sooooooo mad. and i kept calling him.
2007-10-02 14:50:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tips please.....not offening comments.
2007-10-02 14:50:43 · update #1
Just give him a little time to cool off. Dont call him for a little while, until you know he has had time to think about what happened. I know that you wanna just talk to him and apologize, but.. sometimes people need time to cool off. Everything might be completely forgotten by tomorrow.. Good LUCK :)
2007-10-02 14:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by Vane N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take this as a tip and not an offending comment...from someone who has been in your place.
Do you really want to be friends or even be this guy's girlfriend? If someone treats you like this and you have to convince them to be your friend, do you think they will really appreciate you as much as a guy who likes you for you without any convincing, and instead of making fun of you in a mean way and says f off, he teases you in a flirty way and has fun with you? Don't like someone because they are hot, popular, whatever. Be friends with and like someone because they make you happy and treat you nicely. People like that are not worth worrying over. I know it is party of the junior high/high school drama that you will look back at when you were older and laugh about it, but wouldn't you rather laugh about the fun and goofy times you had?
That is what I told myself back then and I am so thankful, now that I'm 22, that I didn't spend my high school life getting caught up in the drama like the other girls at school. I had a much better time!
2007-10-02 15:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by tobyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all gal, dont overanalyze and overthink the whole situation..i do believe hes just playing around with u and not offended by wht u said..so dont take it seriously..just let it go and talk to him again like u normally do the next time u c him..dont overblown the situation which in the first place is kinda small i think..
2007-10-02 15:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't be sorry. You don't need him. Don't pay him no attention. Why would you want to be with some one who has no respect for you at all?
Focus on other things right now. When some one make fun of you that is a sign of no respect. you will make him up set by not paying him no attention when he is talking that mess.
2007-10-02 14:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by Rejeana L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He told you to shut up and made fun of you. WHY do you want to be his friend again? You're better off without him around. Go find someone else who will respect you!
2007-10-02 14:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by copswife134 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you can go to his house like right now and get to talk to him that way. if you call again tell him you are really sorry you should have not said that and that you where having a bad day and took you bad day out on someone you shouldnt of
2007-10-02 14:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by musclegirl2009 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you will call him the more he will hate you Ita time for you to grow up You will have to learn to take NO for a answer Do as you wish and face the consequenses
2007-10-02 14:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me it sound like he was playing with u at first but u might have taken it too serious if u always say something to him every day then just ignore him for a day or so maybe he will come around that worked for me
2007-10-02 14:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oral
2007-10-02 14:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋