two weeks ago, a guy I was dating for 2 months says he just wants to be friends. It was 2 amazing months for both of us. We had amazing chemistry and a great friendship was developing. Just when things were about to go to the next level, he pulls back and says let's just be friends, I respect you too much, I just don't have enough time to devote to anything more than friendship right now. I was sad but accepted it. We parted on very good terms. Problem is, he keeps calling me, texting me, to say hello, asks me about my day, etc. like nothing ever happened. Why won't this guy give me some space? HE broke up with ME but why isn't he letting go?? Help!
2007-10-02 14:45:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe hes trying to really be friends. Or just being a C*ckblock. If you want your space just tell him in a nice way that you need some time to think about the breakup and you havent had the chance because you guys are still talking all the time. Either that or ignore some of his calls and texts. Im sure he will get the picture.
2007-10-02 14:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke off a potential romance not complete friendship. There is nothing wrong with remaining friends after a romantic break up.After all you indicated that you had an amazing chemistry and a great friendship after only two months of dating.Regardless of the reasons for the breakup and who initiated it, you parted on good terms.Unless you still love him and want to resume your romance,hate him and no longer want to talk to him ,or want time to get over him, there is no reason why he can't call or text you.It does not mean he wants to get back together;unless he says so.But if you want him to stop calling you, texting you, or give you space for whatever reason, then tell him just that. The next time you guys are in contact, simply let him know how you feel and ask him to respect your decision. But I think that will be a mistake on your part as I have a good sense about you both and feel you should not close that door.
2007-10-02 15:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is do you want to let him go? If you do then let him know you' re doing other thing and have not time to talk. If you want him then you do the same until he comes running back and begging you to take him back. You really need to decide what you want and go after that don't worry about what he wants .He'll get it if he try hard enough
2007-10-02 14:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by purejc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him in no uncertain terms that is is over and to please stop trying to contact you...unless you feel otherwise. He may have been trying to 'shop around' and realized his mistake...thus his repeated attempts to restablish your relationship. You decide whether you want to 'rekindle the flames' or 'snuff them out for good'...your decision...not his.
Good Luck!
2007-10-02 14:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by CajunAsian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋