i need your help?

Question

i have been with this guy since i was 16. yes we went through it all. i cheated on him once and he forgave me. i know he loves me i know he does. on feb 09, he asked me to marry him, i was elated, happiest girl you know. we are to be married on nov10 and now that the time is drawing near am getting worried.

am 21 am ready to be married. do i need a little more experience. do married people still have fun. will he still take me to clubs and movies on sundays.

what should i do? am i making a mistake?

Answer 1

you are not making a mistake at all.
go for it!
you can still have fun!

Answer 2

Only you can truly know inside if this is what you want. I would say you are too young. Whats the rush to get married. You do not even know who you are yet?Wait a few years. If you both are meant to be it will last without a piece of paper. At 21 you should be going out, going abroad and just enjoying being in your 20s. The heavy stuff like marriage, kids, mortgage, car payment, and car pooling should be later. When you look back you should be able to say you had fun and adventure. Maybe smile or blush at what you did back then. So that when you sit down to do the bills and the kids are asleep and your husband is watching the game. You will be doing what you want and not what you have to do. That is the best wedding gift you give to yourself, kids and your husband. Don't get caught up in the fantasy of a wedding because the day after is the real marriage. One more thing.. Always have a back up career so that you can take care of yourself and the kids if the marriage should fail. Never have to rely on a man to take care of you.

Answer 3

it sounds like a normal case of cold feet and talk to him --- let him know what you want --- get him to tell you what he wants ---- best i can say is keep falling in love --- romance ketp it alive ---- best wishes