what are some things a guy can do to tell the girl its over things that wont just come out and say it straight up to her face and brake her heart but show little things
2007-10-02 14:36:17 · 10 answers · asked by Adrian O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not doing her any favors by not being straight with her and neglecting her little by little. She's just going to worry and wonder if you do that. Who is that really going to be easier on? (You?)
You can sit her down and gently tell her that you don't want to continue your relationship; tell her you're sorry but you don't feel about her the way she deserves to be cared for by a boyfriend. She'll be ok. It takes more courage to do this, but believe it or not, it's kinder than the alternative.
2007-10-02 14:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pull away gradually, making your true feelings known. She'll generally get the picture once you move on and date others. Tell her you'd like to remain friends, but need your own space for now. Growing up together, but taking different directions is part of real life.
2007-10-02 15:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by Pinyon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a two-timing jerk and avoid her. Or show that it's over with having another girl on your arms. Just tell her why you want to end it. Be blunt and direct. But don't ask to be friends.
2007-10-02 14:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by blckmustng2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres not much of a choice...
if she likes you alot it will break her heart any way
but you have to tell her straight up
it hurts worse to hear lame excuses
(i dont have time, better friends, etc. )
but eventually she will get over it
meanwhile assure her u still care about how she feels
u just dont feel passion for her
good luck.
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2007-10-02 14:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to end it then just give her the cold shoulder; act different; don't return her calls; don't hang out with her; tell her your busy & trust me she'll know that you've moved on. but listen you really think there's a nice way to break someones heart? your wrong. either way if you try to get rid of her it'll break her heart.
2007-10-02 14:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by crazykiaray23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's usually the little things that break a girl's heart.... you should just say it.
2007-10-02 14:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by mitchell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't show her, tell her. Always tell the truth no matter how hard it hits.
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2007-10-02 14:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best answer. It may hurt but it is much better than a lie
2007-10-02 14:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by teresa m 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games with her. Be a man and tell her to her face.
2007-10-02 14:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
tell her you don't have time for a relationship right now, and your busy with school.
2007-10-02 14:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋