well me and my boy friend have been going out for about 3months now and we said that we were going to take it slow so thats why it was so long and well when it happened it was not all that great but i dont want to break up with him because of that and iam not but what do i say
2007-10-02 12:39:42 · 10 answers · asked by lilnikechick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't tell him he wasn't good...that will ruin his ego and make him not want to do it again with you.
tell him what you like. it is different for everyone. suggest that he do something different. just teach him a little and he will figure out how to make it good for you.
2007-10-02 12:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its best that you don't tell him how bad he is . Tell him you want to try to spice things up a bit by doing new things( Rent a sexy movie to give hints) get some toys and guide him to what you like. Tell him it will be fun to try some new things. See what happens. I wish you the best and hoped this gave you some help.
2007-10-02 12:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by Hugs from Sugar bug 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three months is not really slow. It's pretty fast so don't pat yourself on the back for showing restraint.
Instead of telling him he's not all that, tell him stuff like "I'd really love it if you..."
If it's too hard to get personal, you got no business getting naked with him.
2007-10-02 12:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just joke about it with him or with his friends untill he realices that there is something going on; perhaps the problem is not his perhaps is just that you are to good for him!!
Now in His defence, the first few times Guys, in general, tend not to be so great ...; but there might be room for improvment, don't you think...
2007-10-02 12:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by thiny72 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people first time usually sucks..i remeber it took me about 3 months to sleep with this guy i was going out with then when it finally happened the first time sucked..but after that it was like OMG..give me more and more....girl please i was on top of the world...even with my current guy at first i was like WTF an i wanted to tell him so bad that our style was so different but how could i..and so one day we got into an argument and i told him that we got differnt styles he liek it fast adn i like it slow...and to say that after that i am loving it ..we have been together now 2 years...so dont fret enjoy him and try to make him improve..when u guys are in bed say baby do this or i like this....good luck
2007-10-02 12:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Criticism won't improve things; he doesn't need performance anxiety. A lot of times it's not that great at the beginning.
2007-10-02 12:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by M S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him hes lousy in bed just outright say it tellem he needs some more practice dont be to serious with it or he may think your thinking of breaking up with him
2007-10-02 12:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell him no lie if it ain't the truth & teach him how you want to be please. Everyone pleases differently and most people think what pleases the last woman would please the next....... But as a lesbian female (Butch) I know. Teach him in motion what you want without saying it, if he don't get it then let him know............
2007-10-02 13:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by Travis S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why don't you suggest what he should do to make it better for you? Different things turn different people on.
2007-10-02 12:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by Moon Crystal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say anything.
answer my question?
please?
2007-10-02 12:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by cambrexia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋