over the weekend i told my sisters boyfriend that she was holding hands with another guy, and she was, but now since she found out, shes not talking to me! She hasnt said one word since yesterday morning. What do i do?? I feel really bad, were like best friends!!! PLEASE HELP
2007-10-02 11:52:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i did that because i thought he needed to know. He has been there for me for the last YEAR that they have been together.. He was like a brother to me.
2007-10-02 11:58:38 · update #1
Dont listen to everyone else that says why did u do that.It was not stupid she was chttin and he did need to know.Walk up to her and tell her that u r sorry but he needed to know..U were chettin
2007-10-02 12:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by hollister cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have an older sister and when we were younger we went through a lot together. If I were you I would tell her how sorry you are and promise to never to do that again (but only if you mean it). Friends come and go but Family is forever. Hopefully you will patch things up soon. Good luck.
2007-10-02 12:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by jfoot1110 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really messed up but I'm sure she'll get over it. It was not your position to make such an accusation. Especially when it's your sister! But she'll get over it. First, ask yourself, Why is my sister no talking to me? You pried into her business and took a deliberate action to upset her. If it wasn't a deliberate, you should know that you should have confronted her first. Not her boyfriend. She is permanately connected to you. She's upset for the mean time. But make it up to her. Write her a letter and make her forgiveme cookies.
2007-10-02 12:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is your sister and no matter what she is doing, wrong or right in your eyes, you are supposed to support her and keep her secrets. Her boyfriend would have found out on his own eventually and it would of been for her to deal with but now you've involved yourself. if she is your sister and your best friend you need to tell her that you realize you made a mistake but also tell her that what she did was wrong to her boyfriend and he would of found out anyways
2007-10-02 11:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by lindsay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but you should've let your sister deal with that. It is her bussiness, you should've asked her what she was doing or stayed out of it. Just say your sorry, if you guys were best friends, then you should be able to make her admit that she really did do that, but you should really say sorry first, there isn't much you can do after that.
2007-10-02 11:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell her ur sry and u shouldn't of said anything thats between ur sis. and her boy not u. look at it like this she's ur sis and his nothing to u i think u pick the wrong side. now i really want to know why u really told on her were u mad at her and wanted to get even but thou it wouldnt be like this or do u have a thing for this boy.
2007-10-02 12:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by the_one_and_only 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was like a brother to you but she ISSS your sister and bestfriend. Shes just feeling upset. Wouldn't you? She'll get over it.
2007-10-02 12:44:11 · answer #7 · answered by Snickerdoodle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't your business. Sure he needed to know, but it was up to your sister to tell him she is having second thoughts about being with him.
2007-10-02 12:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
although it may have been the right thing to do...its sad u burned ur own sister. So u shouldnt be surprised shes upset
2007-10-02 12:09:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lils 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some things you don't discuss. Ask yourself if you were in someone's shoes, would you want them to say/do what you intend to do. You betrayed your sisters confidence. She'll come around....eventually.
2007-10-02 11:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by chicago4800314 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋