ok so i met this guy at work i had a bf at the time but i broke up with him recently. we started out as friends he didnt seem like the player type at all everyone thinks he is the nicest guy in the world. so i thought we both wer einto each other but i guess i was more so than him. he would make mefeel so good about msyelf he would call me sweet nicknames like his littl eprincess and he called me all the time saying he missed me, he said he didnt want a relationshpi bc of family issues but then when i said i was breaking up with my bf he said he was happy. then all of a sudden he strated acting different like every other week towards me. one week he owuld be all sweet calling me sweet names and texting me and then the next he would go smoke wihtout me and not say goodbye when he left for the night. then i aske dhim if he wanted to go out one night and he said he was staying in and i found out he went out with friends but he texted me saying he missed me. i dont get it
2007-10-02 11:50:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this guy is so confusing but i think he is seeing another girl we work with bc i asked him to smoke the other day and he said he was too busy and then i saw him out smoking with her. and everytime im with him and she walks by he acts all weird liek he doesnt want to be seen with me. i realy thought this guy liked me should i play his game back and ignore him and make him feel how i feel?
2007-10-02 11:51:55 · update #1
a good reminder why we don't date within the work place. when you had a boyfriend he was safe. now that you are single he can't play his little games as easily. rule of thumb....if anyone gives you an excuse any excuse why they don't want a relationship it is time to move on
2007-10-02 11:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that only kids and immature adults play games like what you are talking about. And then that don't get you anywhere. But I think he is playing you as a fool by doing what you said he does to you. My suggestion would be to not ask him to smoke with you, not go smoke with him if he asks you to, and then either block his texts or tell him either by text or in person (which would be better) that you are not interested in him and his games. You will find a much better man and then you will be happy. You don't need his aggravation right? You deserve better right? yes you do, so think about my advise. (smile)
2007-10-02 12:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't feel like you feel if he's already into another girl sweetie! Don't play any games. He isn't responsible for your happiness, you are. So.. if you aren't happy with the way he is treating you... get someone you are happy with. But, then again.. it's probably bad Karma that is hitting you. You were treating your boyfriend wrong and now you're just getting it back.
2007-10-02 11:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by luv2help 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need us to answer this ? You know the answer already . IGNORE the little kid and go get yourself a MAN. GEZZZZZZZZZZZZ and do not believe everthing ever guy tells you . MEN LIE I know cause I'm a man . Good Luck
2007-10-02 11:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Ignore him, and also quit smoking. Start hanging out with the coffee drinkers, fer chrissakes.
2007-10-02 11:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should get back with your bf if you still love him and forget this guy but dont be all mean to him and ignore him because you have to show him that it didn't affect you and that your totally cool about it all
2007-10-02 11:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP SMOKING!!!!!!!
yes you shud get him back.
make sure its in public or something so he is REALLLY embarrassed. like in a resturant, or a bar, or the mall!!! or evn at work if you dont like public.....
but just DONT get mad at his girlfriend UNLESS she knew ha was dating you too(which she probably doesnt...)
i like it when like in movies or something, the girl gets back at him by like pouring a milkshake down his shirt...
but if hes phsyco or fragile, dont hurt him too bad or else since he knows where you live...he can come after you.
2007-10-02 11:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by K@T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's got a girl in mind and it isn't you. he is keeping you on the back burner, so if it does not work out with her, he is not alone. forget him and find someone who will treat you with respect.
2007-10-02 11:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, i think this jerk is seriously hurting you. i've seen you post the same question many times. my advice will be forget about him. hes obviously not serious. ive met more or less the same kind of a**holes before. forget about them. please.
2007-10-02 12:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by BunnyBunz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it didnt work first time, never will! move on!
2007-10-02 11:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋