I dated this guy and then i broke up w/ him because i ddin't know that he was going to be going to my school,(he hadn't told me yet that he was going to be)and so... I broke up with him cuz i didn't want a long distance relationship... so then turns out he is going to my school, I still had feelings for him, then my BEST FRIEND told me that she was into him... it created tension in our friendship(might i just say she was always talking aobut him, and she knew i was still kinda into him)so anyway,I made her choose between me and him, it was creating tension between our friendship and ruining it. So i made her choose, me or him, she chose him. I felt like the lesser out of the two, of him and I.So we are no longer friends... am i right you don't do that to a friend.. I hear people say, and i believe it too, YOU DON"T DO THAT TO A FRIEND especially not you best friend!!!am i right to make her choose and be mad for her desicion give you opinion on my problem!Doi forgiveherwhenshecomesback?
2007-10-02 10:34:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should you have asked her to choose? Maybe and maybe not. But it was your decision and you did what you thought was right. By doing that you were able to see how deep her loyalties lied. Not very deep. Which has to hurt a lot. But it's time now to move on! Should you take her back IF she comes back? Your relationship will probably never be the same. They say "forgive and forget". The forgiving part is always easier that the forgetting. Find some other friends. You might discover that her leaving was the best thing for you!
2007-10-02 10:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by amy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was WRONG of you to make her choose, but since you did, you are stuck with her decision. NEVER ask a question to which you may not like one of the answers. You should have stayed friends and let time go by to see what happens.
2007-10-02 17:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you make him choose? if she was your best friend, you made a pact, no guy can come between you. if he chooses her, then you back off. if he chooses you, then she back off. it is stupid to lose your best friend over a guy you don't even know if he will ultimately be the one.
2007-10-02 17:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by Carborane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)u dont ask your best friend that
2)didn't anyone ever tell her that boyz come and go but friends are forever or when ur afraid to look ahead and to sad to look back that you can look to ur side and your best friend (not bf) will be their.
2007-10-02 17:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not be mad don't make her choose again apologise
2007-10-02 17:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by cc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋