I'm feeling so guilty right now >< My dad gave me one of his Credit cards and strickly told me to only spend 70 on it cause that's all he had on that card >< ok I spent the 70 and I was talking with this one girl at a kioski thing >< and I got talked into buy some lotion stuff >< lol... lol... I'm a dude... I don't even use it >< Whhyyyyyyyy lol, ok I spent 40 on that... my logic of it was... wail I told her I don't think I have enough on it and she was like, wail I'll just swipe it, and if you don't it'll kick it back>.< so I was like ok... needless to say... I didn't know "this" creditcard my dad let me use... allowed you to go "OVER" the limit set on the card >< bastard >< anyway I called up my dad and he was like, "it seems like you had fun at the mall." and yeah he know what I bought and stuff >< anyhoot it "seems" ok and stuff... but Ican't get over this guilty feeling >< he knows about it and isn't, "to mad or anything"... but I shoulda been a lil more controlling and said, "No.
2007-10-02 09:49:18 · 6 answers · asked by Aubrey C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
oh yeah, my question is... how do I feel less guilty? lol
2007-10-02 09:49:37 · update #1
ok what is everyone opinion actually ><
2007-10-02 09:52:43 · update #2
pay him back will ease your guilt big time
2007-10-02 09:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by ann s 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Since you do not really want the stuff-then return it! Make sure you return enough to get the amount credited to equal the amount you went over 70. Then ask your Dad how much his over the limit charge was. Then find some way to make some money (Mow lawns.wash/wax cars) then when you get the amount you cost him saved put it in a card that says you are sorry and give it to him. It won't change what you did but it will make up for it somewhat. If you want to be really good pay him back the overcharge fee AND the 70$! (Plus return the items that put you over in the first place).
Remember trust is easy to lose and difficult to get back!
2007-10-02 10:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by B. D Mac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get over it, by stepping up and taking responsibility for your actions. Pay your dad the $40 as soon as possible, and the $70 afterwards. A credit card is a loan, and you caused him to get more of a loan than what he intended. It's your responsibility to deal with it.
If you don't have a job, then it's time to work your debt off. Mow the lawn for 5-6 weeks without being asked, and do the very best you can. Clean up around the house. Rake leaves. Wash and wax his car. Help take care of any siblings you have. Learn to use punctuation, and to spell, too.
2007-10-02 09:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would feel a lot less guilty if you took genuine responsibility for your expenditure, & paid your father back as soon as you can.
You would also make him proud. :-))
2007-10-02 10:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can start by realizing that a skank played you and you gave in >< fortunatley, you live and you learn.
Meaning: Never do that again=)
2007-10-02 09:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first dont get played again,hope you have learned your lesson by this,,,second,,try n help your dad by giving him some off your allowance or anything you get,,,he isnt mad with you,but do you think he will really let you have his card again???????????narrrrrrrrrr dont think so,xxx
2007-10-02 10:06:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋