I met this guy at a friends house, we were speaking on the internet before hand.
the night we met, we had sex (whoops)
we want to get together, i think.. hes lovely and i know he doesnt just want sex.
so... how do i go about asking him out?
2007-10-02 09:48:09 · 25 answers · asked by Jelena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him the truth. Don't keep sleeping with him like that though cause he will never respect you. And by telling him, it will let you know what he really wants from you. Have some respect for yourself and others will too.
2007-10-02 09:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by ld123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You went wayyyyyyy too fast with this relationship, speak to him again on the internet, talk to him for awhile and then bring up the topic slowly. I have a feeling that he will say a big yes.
2007-10-02 16:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him it went way too fast the other night and that you would like to start over and make it better than what it was like. Tell him you would like to get to know him.
2007-10-02 16:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already did the most intimate thing you can do with another person, but you don't feel comfortable saying "Hey, you want to grab a bite later?" - I don't mean to sound harsh, but think about what you're saying!
2007-10-02 16:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by slushpile reader 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will probably be glad to go out with you but he might want a piece everytime now that you gave him some. Hate to point this out but men are pigs!
2007-10-02 16:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by sirdouglas527 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be old fashioned, but dont ask him out.....let the dust settle...if he calls, talk....let things move along slowly now...you started off a little fast...let everything going into place on its own
2007-10-02 16:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet_Bama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys have had sex already, maybe it's not that difficult to ask him to get together again. just be your plain self, the self that had met with him before! ;)
2007-10-02 16:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by J. McCoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww.........you had sex the first day you met and now you want to know how to ask him out...........
Unreal! Get some self-respect and stop screwing around - then you'll find a decent man to DATE!
2007-10-02 16:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont say how old you both are but i suggest you get to know him as a person before you consider actually going out with him
2007-10-02 16:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by bexsy1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. You already slept with him. If he says yes, great. If he says no, that's the worst that can happen and then it's all over.
2007-10-02 16:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋