You girls say that you want the perfect guy. So i ask you what is your list as the perfect guy. As they answer muscles.6-pack abs, looks like Brad Pitt, drives a hot car. and has money. WOW! shallow. I also asked married people what there perfect guy is. I asked my parents. The old couple next door that has been toghether 50 years. My uncles and aunts. Their answers completely different. The thing i got out of it was they found their best friend. Someone they know will always be there. Someone that is eazy to talk to no matter how young or old the relationship is about anything.
After I did this i started noticeing the relationships around me, my friends. my friend, the player, not beening able to stick with a girl. One that doesnt try and has women always interested in him but always declines. Then the female friends who always complain about how much of an @ss their ex's are. we all say we want someone easy to talk to, and make us laugh.
I implore you to open your eyes and s
2007-10-02 09:48:05 · 9 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see who is easy to talk to and who makes you laugh. The person who keeps you safe. If you look to those close to you will find that person. I'm not saying that it will be forever but I believe it is worth trying.
2007-10-02 09:50:48 · update #1
its not a question of what you look for. its a question of who you are looking at. I have had a list of what i thought was perfect. I was wrong. I was looking out in the world and found thats not what i want. This more of a rant that the one would be your best friend.
2007-10-02 10:05:42 · update #2
I'm not as shallow as most girls prob cause I'm in my late-20's and I've been around long enough to know that beauty is only skin deep and for the record I have found my perfect guy.
For the record, He doesn't have a 6 pack (nor do I want a guy with a 6 pack, he doesn't look like Brad Pitt, he doesn't drive a hot car, and Yes he has money (just enough to make ends meet) not the reason I fell in love with him BTW.
I fell for his personality and I knew after 4 months of knowing him I could tell him anything. We've known each other almost a year and have been an item almost 3 months.
We were friends before we became an item. He's the only person I feel I can tell anything to.
2007-10-02 10:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by Noneofyabusiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FROM A WOMAN. I AGREE. PEOPLE ARE TO SHALLOW AND REALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.
GIRLS DO COMPLAIN WAY TO MUCH AND A LOT OF TIMES THERE'S A GUY THERE THAT'S GREAT AND SEE DOESN'T SEE HIM BECAUSE HE'S NOT DRIVING THAT CAR.
WOMEN NEED TO OPEN THERE EYES AND STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT THOSE GUYS AND LOSS THEM OR GET OVER IT.
GUYS I DON'T KNOW. THERE ALL FOR WHAT THE BOOB SIZE IS AND WHAT SHE LOOKS LIKE.
WOMEN DO LIKE THE BAD BOYS AND THEN THE WHOLE TIME TOGETHER THEY COMPLAIN ABOUT HOW THEY DO HER WRONG.
IF YOU DON'T LIKE BEING TREATED THAT WAY THEN FIND SOMEONE WHO REALLY CARS ABOUT YOU AND NOT JUST WHAT YOU DO FOR THEM AND HOW YOU MEASURE UP IN THE WORLD TODAY.
2007-10-02 09:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by CUTIEQ84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made that long. Ill answer honestly.. at the age of 13 turning 14 next week... the looks are what get you into the person but after that personailty is what does it. if you are the hottest person in the world yeah ill be likin them but hell no i wont date em!
2007-10-02 09:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Paula D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me perfect isn't how hot he is or how much money he has.. to me, perfect would be someone that i could spend every waking moment with and still have something to talk about or not be tired of him. a great personality and a way to make me laugh are things that i look for. when i see my friends getting treated like crap by there boyfriends but there still with them because they have money or they hot. its just dumb.. relationships aren't about that. yeah it may be better but its just stupid..
2007-10-02 11:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by Danni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ideal guy would be someone... not with a beer belly, but NO muscles (eugh), I quite like long-ish hair, and they I would prefer them to be both taller and older than me. They'd have to love me for me, they'd have to want marriage and kids in the future and they must make me melt whenever he kisses me e.t.c.
Love-at-first-sight is always a good sign
2007-10-02 09:51:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, a perfect guy has to have personality. He has to actually be more entertaining than a doorpost. He also has to look good too. A perfect guy would have to see everything eye to eye with me. And he'd have to know exactly what makes me upset and how to fix it. He'd have to know everything about me and love me for everything that I am. He'd really just have to be my best friend. AND he's gotta make me laugh! If he's sarcastic, then I'd love him even more!!!
2007-10-02 09:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by converse_girl91 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IS this a question? it sounds llike you are bitter because you are alone. Don't get mad at all women just cause you haven't found the right one yet.
2007-10-02 09:51:52 · answer #7 · answered by franz d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. tall
2. intelligent
3. super sense of humor
4. mature
5. responsible
6. gorgeous
Not in any particular order
2007-10-02 09:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by reCcup 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HONESTY, HONESTY, HONESTY
AND BEING ABLE TO AMY HER LAUGH IS AWESOME!
2007-10-02 09:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet_Bama 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋