i got my fist boyfriend three weeeks ago and now i dont want to go out with him. so im really thinking about breaking up with him, but i dont know how cause ive never done it or anything b4. I dont want him to be mad at me because we were really good friends b4. please help me . all is appreciated. thank you
and also do you think 3 weeks is too short for a relationship?
thanx
2007-10-02 09:33:49 · 13 answers · asked by ♪ladida♪ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should just say "can we be friends again, nothing more nothing less?"
unfortunaltly its doesnt always turn ou tthe way you'd like, but its worth a shot.
2007-10-02 09:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by s0&s0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be young. That's OK. It's part of the learning process of dealing with relationships and you haven't even BEGUN to deal with them yet.
You invested 3 weeks in the guy and that is time period. It's not too short or too long. It's how you see it.
He is going to be a little hurt but he will survive just as you will when a guy breaks up with you for the first time. It's how life works. Handle it carefully and remember to be fair. He may have something to say to you that isn't kind but listen anyhow. Remain friends since you started that way but it may take some time to get back to that. Be patient.
Sandy :O)
2007-10-02 09:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Threee weeks for a relationship is not to short if it is a relationship that is no longer wanted just like in your situation....Just tell him that you think you guys were better as freinds and you dont want a relationship between the two of you to ruin that. So you would rather remain freinds. Better to do it now that it has ONLY been 3 weeks instead of waiting any longer because waiting longer will only make it worse. You dont want to give him any time to start having feelings for you. So act now, better now than never.
2007-10-02 09:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Latasha G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your too young or he is too immature or not what you were looking for in a relationship, and be respectful and do it in person, and if you still want to hang out ask if it is alright to still be friends
If you never want to see him again, call him and yell about how he is the worst boyfriend ever, and crush his heart and he will never talk to you again . . . actually don't do that
:) 3 weeks is a bit short for anything to get started so it shouldn't be too hard for him or you to take!!
2007-10-02 09:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Nate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all something that we must do sooner or later in life. When doing this you do run the risk of him hating you for it but seriously that is life. The best thing you can do is just be honest with him and break up with him face to face and in private. No one else is to be there.
If you don't want to be with him you should break up with him sooner rather then later as the longer you leave it the harder it will become
2007-10-02 09:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks is perfect for a first learning experience. tell him you still want to be friends (you won't be, because he will be hurt), but you need to learn that getting out of the relationship will be better for both of you than sticking with it because you think you haven't been dating long enough.
2007-10-02 09:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by Moores 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it as a trial run of the relationship. Just tell him that you can't be the kind of girlfriend you think he deserves and you think you'd both be more compatable with someone else.
2007-10-02 09:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by PandaJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude I have the exact same problem! except mine has just been 1 week and 2 days! i cant figure out how to break up with him either!
2007-10-02 09:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by blair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest
well i broke up with a guy after 2 days!
and we still tslk all the time he toldme that if i wasnt so honest he prob would not be talkin to me anymore
2007-10-02 09:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks is a decently short relationship just explian it to him as it is
2007-10-02 11:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋