I told a friend of mine I wanted to be more than friends.?

Question

Now she won't talk to me, avoids me, and seems mad. Please help.

Answer 1

Lovers are easier to come by than friends. Perhaps she worried that she would lose your friendship, which she treasures. Tell her how you feel but let her know that you will put those feelings aside because, more than ever, her friendship is what you treasure most.

Hope that helps!

Answer 2

This has happened to me before. It's possible that she simply doesn't want to have that kind of a relationship with you, and she's too afraid to tell you flat out.

There are a lot of different reasons this might be happening, though. The only way you will ever know for sure is to ask her. If she continues to ignore you and won't talk to you at all, then she wasn't that good of a friend to begin with.

Answer 3

Well... I'd say she's not interested. You may have come on too strong when you told her or you may have told her in a manner that embarrassed her. Give her some time and then if you can really be just a friend to her, tell her you're interested in someone else now, but you've missed her friendship. Ask if you can be friends again.

Answer 4

She doesn't know what to say. If she hasn't said anything to you about it then she just wants to be friends, nothing more. You should talk to her and tell her that you just wanted her to know, but even if she doesn't feel the same than you still want to be friends. If she still doesn't talk to you, then shes not worth it. If she can't see how great you really are, then shes not worth your time. Just keep your head up and you'll find someone that cares about you the way you do them.

Answer 5

she is probably freaked out if she just thought of you two strictly as friends, or she likes you and is scared of the situation because you two are friends and she might not want to ruin the friendship.

if she doesn't like you tell her there still should be verbal conversation, because you would rather a friendship with her that absolutely nothing.

then try again in a few months.

good luck buddy.

Answer 6

Theres not really a right answer to this, it's really great that you told her how you felt, but if shes angry and your not exactly sure why, then you need to talk to her. If you don't think you can get her to talk to you, maybe give her some time to cool off, due to the fact she might be a little confused.

Answer 7

Well, she isn't interested in you that way, and now she feels weird around you. Some friendships are strong enough to ride this through, some aren't. Just give her some space and see if she gets over it and approaches you later. Don't try to bring the relationship thing up unless she does so.

Answer 8

I don't think she will never talk to you again. if you see she seems mad it means she don't fell the same way. she is mad because she lost her friend and feels uncomfortable. i am sorry but you shouldn't ever told her or maybe yes, i don't know. i think is time you move on with your life and forget her because is not worth it.

Answer 9

Just be strait with her. If you really like her then let her know, and if she doesn't feel the same way and you still want to be friends then tell her you still want be good friends. If she is not big enough to get over it she is not worth it.

Answer 10

All i can say is giver her time to think about it without bugginer her. If she is still not talking to u, give it up and try someone else. Its not worth the time and effort.