2007-10-02 09:20:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't answer then the relationship is at an end.
If you want the relationship to contiue then you need to learn to forgive, and you need to make sure the other person knows how hurt you are feeling and why.
2007-10-02 09:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Dan S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they mean something to you and you truly feel as if what they did may have been a mistake, mess up, and a one time thing that they are absolutely sorry for..then yes..answer them.
If they are just some person and you don't feel as if you can trust them anyways..don't answer.
Do what's best for YOU.
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2007-10-02 16:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by Oops, did I say that? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not answering may not give you the closure you desire or give you that avenue to vent your anger and hurt.
You should answer this person, but just know they are bound to lie and hurt you again, so becareful and not let their momentary sweet words rope you in again.
2007-10-02 16:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always Answer.
Look at the movies. The guy/girl always has a legit reason but the couple is almost broken up because their partner wont listen!
Just listen to what they have to say, and then see how sincere they sound and stuff. And then decide where to go from there.
Good luck.
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2007-10-02 16:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by cambrexia 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as much as you want to answer the person, give yourself the right thing that you deserve. don't let that person hurt you again because no one deserves that kind of treatment. but if you can't help answering, just tell the person not to bother you anymore.
2007-10-02 16:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by J. McCoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to associate yourself with people that are harmful to you. Answer if you need to, but remain at a distance. Keep everything far from personal.
2007-10-02 16:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Koozie the chemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have to justify anything to anybody who hurt your feelings. Unless that person comes with a real apology first.
2007-10-02 16:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always best to talk to this person because things may not be as they seem. If you let it go then you will go through life not knowing what might have been.
2007-10-02 16:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not respond. If you do that gives then power over your feelings: and you all ready know they don't care about your feelings. To avoid being hurt again: for get them!
2007-10-02 16:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by zipper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on exactly what you are talking about and who the person is to you. Did someone write you an email? Are they trying to apologize? Is it a family member or a friend?
We need more information. Thanks.
2007-10-02 16:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by JD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋