For what she says and what she did to my mum (daugter in law). Something broke today and I think she'll die before I forgive her. Not because she's ill or so but because it was just the last straw today. I'm tempted to tell her and why. Or should I not?
2007-10-02 09:08:36 · 9 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i spoke up for my mum as she does all the crapy stuff the other side of the family wont do as they live a so called posh life i,e they wont wash clean for him,so i had enough of my mother getting used as dirt,plus other things my mum had a breast cancer scare and none of the family were bothered to contact her so i blasted my granda and his kids they disgust me,i dont care anymore sometimes likeyourself it gets so so so so so bad u have to let it out and tell them what u think good luck.i wd love a family that stuck together but there u go>>>>>>>>>
2007-10-02 10:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by mark g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother in law was hateful to me and said really outrageous and hurtful thing about me and to me, so I can believe it can be that bad.
Although you have lost respect for her, try not to hate her. She probably is a silly bigoted old fool, but she is your grandmother and I'm sure she loves you, She just doesn't think about the impact her words are having on you and its probably said out of some warped protectiveness of her little boy (your dad).
Next time she says something try saying 'I'd rather you didnt talk about my mum like that'. If she carries on and makes a scene leave quietly and go home. Dont have a stand up argument with her. Hopefully next time you go she'll have got the message. If not do the same again till she does.
2007-10-02 09:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by bri 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
seriously hun take a deep breath and remember shes your gran at the end of the day, everyone annoys us at times, especially close family members, think of all the good times you have had with her and all the times she has been there for you, trust me you will miss her when she is gone, and I'd hate you to have to carry the thought that you two argued and fell out before you got the chance to make up, it's not as easy as you might think and when she is gone if you didn't make up you can't go back and say sorry, just breathe and try and keep things calm with her, for your sakes sweetie. x
2007-10-02 10:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 04:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get involved in your mums and grans business. You probably dont know the full story. If you feel so bad, keep away from your grans altogether.
2007-10-02 09:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe just tell her how hurt you feel for your mum,and that although you love her if it was a choice between her and your mum it would be your mum as you love her unconditionaly.maybe this will make her realise what she is about to lose.good luck lol
2007-10-02 09:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by puntojo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it! you harbour bad feeings for your gran because of your mum ..whice is natural..there is no law to say you have to like her...Dont see her again..it is as easy as that.But dont get into a slanging match with a sick old lady you will never forgive yourself...if you dont regret it at the time you will one day....good luck
2007-10-02 09:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by troubled 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Best not to get involved leave them to work it out! x
2007-10-02 10:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by Tiamat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did she do ? it can't be taht bad?
2007-10-02 09:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋