Currently living in a city of about 40,000'ish people and was wondering if moving to a bigger city such as Cincinnati or Columbus (i'm in Ohio) will increase my dating life? I've had no luck here and have never had a girlfriend..I'm 20 btw.
2007-10-02 09:03:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-10-02 09:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It does not matter where you go, you will always be the same old you. You do not need to move just to find a relationship. Instead focus on getting a good job, go to college, find a hobby that involves getting to know other people, be a success. A town of 40,000 is plenty. If you do all these things first, then things such as dating and love will just come naturally.
2007-10-02 09:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Wylie Dun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is probably not the city.....I'm sure it's you. Perhaps you're not really trying? Not going out and meeting people? Out of 40,000 people I'm sure there has to be a girl out there that you could have a relationship with.
2007-10-02 09:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can change the scenery, but it doesn't change the problems or the person. There's 40,000 people in your city, obviously you havent met them all, and moving to a big city because you want to meet more girls is moronic. Seriously, unless you do something to change yourself, it won't help if you move cities.
2007-10-02 09:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not about chances. It's about fate really if you want true love..why don't you get involved in something? You can meet people that way, especially if it's a daily thing..just like in highschool you can join afterschool stuff and eventually you get talking to everyone..
What type of girl do you want? (Generally) If you want a smart girl go to the Library, a good girl go to church, a bad girl then hit the club. I HOPE you do not want a bad girl..night clubs are not the place to find potential marriage partners but gold diggers and people that just want fun
2007-10-02 09:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by Yuri ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you have tried for a long time, maybe it's just you. I'm just saying. I think the girls aren't into you. Lighten up a bit and if you already are then tighten up a bit. Besides, every gal knows that they should only start looking in Spring when the wedding bells ring...
2007-10-02 09:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by α ρℓα¢є ¢αℓℓє∂ мєℓαи¢нσℓу . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but to be honest, i doubt it. from the sounds of you, you've got plenty of confidence, which is about the only thing you need. plus you don't sound stuck up or anything like that, so maybe you just need to ask the right girl!!
or if you don't have much confidence, then move to another area, although size doesn't matter that much (it might change things slightly), it could be good, if you don't know anyone, then you set a name for yourself. a new-life kinda thing.
2007-10-02 09:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably not going too. But then again, bigger city, more people to choose from. Hope you find someone.
2007-10-02 09:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u try a new area with different people yes there is a better of you meeting a new girl and the both of u hook up.
2007-10-02 09:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, you find the best things when you're not actually looking for them.
Moving might not be your saving grace but it can't hurt.
Don't do it for the wrong reasons.
2007-10-02 09:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by mtlgirl123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
You will still be you.
You need to read up a bit, and improve
those social skills.
2007-10-02 09:06:22 · answer #11 · answered by emeraldisle2222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋