I've already asked this question twice but the first time I didn't get any answers and the second time I only got one that didn't help at all!!! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE I'm getting so frustrated!!!
The guy I like and I have the weirest relationship. One day we'll practically be inseparable, and the next day we're ignoring each other. I don't know why this happens or how to stop it. It's not like we get into fights or anything, we simply don't talk or say hi to each other on those days. It's really starting to annoy me because I really want to go out with this guy, but he's sending me these weird messed up signals. I can't just talk to him about it either. I don't know what to do...?
2007-10-02 08:38:06 · 5 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talking isn't exactly an option...he's not really the type of person who I can ask to sit and talk to me. It's complicated.
And I can't tell him I like him either because that's just not possible. Don't ask why. It just isn't.
2007-10-02 08:39:03 · update #1
Obviously, no one really gets the problem...
It's just that we rarely ever see each other and I almost never get to talk to him. Maybe that's the real problem. But sometimes when we do get the chance, we simply don't. I love him and I know he likes me (exactly how much I'm not entirely sure of though). And then there are times when I see him and can't go up and talk to him...
Sorry I'm not explaining this well...I'm just so down all the time lately...between this and everything else that's happening in my life...
I don't know how to explain this. Sorry.
2007-10-02 09:08:14 · update #2
First off excellent question, I usually answer one like this every day that I am on answers. Before we begin I want to show you how to have your questions answered better.
When I am on answers I mostly answer questions. I have only asked two. Other times I will vote on undecided answers. My goal is to get to level seven but it should take a year to get there. Today I am answering questions in Singles and Dating section. I clicked on catergories and each day I like to do a different topic. I then scroll for the headlines of questions.
Things like "My husband is turning into a warewolf, what should I do?" I ignore because that is either some tard playing a prank or if it is legit I have no experience. I am searching for questions that I have experience in. The one's with the headline Help Help Help I usually ignore too because it takes to long to open the question up and read the question and determine if I can be of help.
My goal as an answerer is to be rated best answer. I can get 2 pts for just typing my name but my percentage of best answers go down. Right now I think it is just 6 percent but I want it to get up to at least ten. To do that I need to restrict myself to questions that I can answer well. That way I can be voted best answer and also get the coveted 10 extra points.
Boy someone needs a life huh?
So I would make sure your question headline is simple and to the point that way scrollers like me can find you easier.
Now to the question. The answer is love languages.
You got 4 basic love languages.
The talker: This person expresses love by communication. You may be this type of lover. However this is also how you desire to receive love. Your mate may do a thousand tasks or deliver a ton of roses at your doorstep, but unless he tells you he loves you, you may not think he does.
The doer. This person exresses love by doing. I am this kind of lover. I will go over to my friends house and clean it while he is at work because I know with his 4 kids he or his wife hardly have time to do it. Or with my last girl friend I was always fixing things in her house. Naturally we are not big on talking and often try to avoid those "can we just talk" moments.
The giver: This person demonstrates love by giving you the shirt off their back. Which is fine unless you're a fat hairy guy like me. Then it's best I keep it on. These people are never happy unless they are always broke.
The toucher. I also do this alot. I like to show affection by touching. Not sensual touching but rather petting the hair or holding the hand. Sitting on the couch just holding someone closely for hours while watching TV.
Obviously it is possible for you or him to have a differnt love language than I have discussed here. Find out what yours is, that is find out how you show love and also how you wish to receive it. Then discuss with your boyfriend what his language might be. Then work together to learn each other's love language.
2007-10-02 09:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid your problem is almost too strange for anyone to give you an adequate answer. I'd say there isn't any powerful emotions in either of you that draws you together. Sadly, it sounds like the whole thing may be unfixable.
2007-10-02 08:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by SaturnMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 15:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by ill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u already know what to do. if he's not talking to u, then u go ahead and talk to him. if u don't wanna be the first to talk to him then u r 90% part of the problem, because u already know there is a problem that needs to be taken care of. if u can't talk to him becuse he can't be talked to, then what the hell r u guys doing together?
2007-10-02 08:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by rali b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I can help you cause I've been there I just need more information ok
2007-10-02 08:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by angel b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋