is suicide a way out? a way to a better world, a better life, where i'll be happy & have all the things?

Question

im struggling to strive for in this life?
if i do take the suicide route will i then be with people and somebodies i dearly want to be with?

instead of struggling cold, alone and lonely, struggling with bpd in a one bedroom apartment, with no friends, no life, never had a girlfriend..obsessively thinking about my dreams and goals of emigrating, building a new life away from britain.

if i do the termination, will i go to a life i want to be, where i will be loved and understood...where i wont be lonely anymore?

Answer 1

I know how you feel, but let me share a few things with you.

Died in the ER twice from suicide, you will be held accountable.

If you are sane enough to know you are thinking of suicide, you will be held accountable in the spirit world, which is where spirit go after death to wait the second resurrection of the death, the first occurred when Christ rose from the dead.

YOu think you are miserable now, you will be more so and people will say, no that's not true. I ask them, how many have died and come back.

I knew a guy who is now dead, he died about 8 years after he shot himself in the deseret in the head and blew off half his head, literally. But miracles of miracles, someone just happened by, a lift flight and decided to check out his car. They saved him. He was left blind and with half a head and still depressed as ever before, but now he was physically disabled. He struggled the remainder of his days like that, got a law degree, helped others. I was in the psycho ward with him and asked him since he was dead they figure for about 30 minutes, while CPR was on going. He said he was told he could not tell all he saw, but that suicides that know what they are doing better think twice, as it's nothing but misery.

Also, before you opt for suicide, just make sure you learn about Heaven, accountability first, and about God and Jesus; make sure you come to understand what it is you are going to be giving up. It's a fantasy idea that killing yourself makes everything better.

Then before you die, go purchase the book, and i kow they have it in almost every language in most countries this book can be found. It's called Return from Tomorrow. The guy who wrote it was clinically dead for about 20 minutes in a military hospital years ago. Read what he learned while dead about suicides.

If you are going to end your life, don't foul yourself that it's going to bring you a reunion of some kind with loved ones and happiness and an excape from the problems of this life.

I fight suicidal feelings a lot as my physical body is in so much pain, so I understand and for years for my body feel apart, I wanted to die for various reasons. So I know about wanting to excape mental and social problems and I know wanting to escape physical pain I can't get controlled. But I at least never foul myself into thinking that if I chose suicide all will be bless once my spirit enters the spirit world.

Leaving Britain also isn't magically going to make your life better, promise you that.

Please try hard to actively work one goal at a time to change your life where you can. Take control of what you can and make those hard positive changes.

Suicide is forever, you can't say OOPS, I didn't mean that once you've done it.

Please really consider that there are eternal consequences for choosing suicide and work for 1 year at least to actively change your current life situations.

Please take care and try not to give up.

Answer 2

I can't believe that you don't know about this. Hasn't anyone ever told you about LIMBO? That is the most alone you can ever be, plus there is nothing to hear, nothing to see, you don't eat or sleep or hear anything at all, you have no sensory imput or anything else at all. And the worst part is, that is an eternal sentence for those who commit suicide. However, there is a big difference between committing the act of killing yourself and
having the feelings you are having right now. I knew that you would be reaching a pretty low point soon but I didn't realize how critical it is becoming. So what I want you to do is CHANGE SOMETHING in your life. It doesn't really even matter what, and obviously it won't be the things you want most to change, like leaving the UK or meeting a peer group that appreciates you... wait a minute! You have a peer group that appreciates you right here! Not only that, you really have some good questions about strange things that exist beyond the means of basic human comprehension. I wish you would concentrate more on those areas of interest for the time being, because it allows you to step outside yourself. And also, there are some things that I have wanted to bring up to you anyhow so I guess now is a good time...
First of all, why do you go for long periods of time without mentioning the Native American heritage that is part of who you are? Remember, this is a group of people who had their lands, their freedom, their social interactions and most of all their pride taken from them in almost no time at all; yet most of them have remained true to their beliefs and ideals. See, whether you know it or not, some things that you put in your Q&A's here are very much like the way that your Cherokee ancestors felt as far as right and wrong and the nature of man. If you had grown up in a tribe before my ancestors came and took everything then destroyed it, you know what you would see where I am sitting right now? The buffalo herds coming farther into the SW after the worst heat of the summer is gone; proud golden eagles soaring overhead to search for the abundant prey,(mice and groundhogs, mostly but sometimes they would get a diamond back rattlesnake or a gila monster- which is a type of poisonous large lizard that used to be quite numerous in the SW deserts) and the most beautiful sight would have been the surrounding mountains sillhouetted against the darkening twilight. Especially the Red Rock mountains, which look to me like dark birds of prey or bats, maybe even avenging angels getting prepared to dive down upon the lands.

I can still find beauty but I also feel an ancestral shame because my ancestors made this a place that is overcrowded, money-grubbing and void of spiritual respect for nature and her gifts like monsoon rain, prickly pear cactus fruits, HEMP, mountains full of fresh water springs, and caves that go on forever (some of the caves at Red Rock have carvings in the stone left by the Paiutes)

Answer 3

Suicide is never the answer, there is always a better way. What you feel now is only temporary even though it feels like eternity. Besides, if you're dead, you are simply no more and those dreams and goals that you have are gone too. Its a good idea to write down your thoughts and bring them to a therapist and see if you can better resolve your feelings-you can't do it alone. Collect yourself as best you can and get help. Trust in God and everything will be alright, just give it all you can to get through this and one day you'll be glad that you did. :)

Answer 4

I don't know the answer christians will tell u will go to hell atheisist will say its just over. Eiether way or whatever truth is not good. As I have tols u in previous posts life can suck really bad but there is often something good if u hang on for me its a chance at a real career after years of dead end jobs firings which have left me near broke and traumatized. Where would u like to emigrate us canada european continent. All my life i wanted to liven in a rural setting at 28 i did went from New York City to Vermont has beem bumpy ride but glad to be here if u think u may hurt urself DON'T
http://www.supportline.org.uk/problems/suicide.php

Answer 5

You and I and everyone else needs to find people while we are here that love and understand us. Feeling lonely is an awful feeling. We need to find new friends.
Maybe the first step can be connecting to others so you won't be so lonely.
After you feel like you have a few special people in your life you can start thinking about your dreams and goals.
Your dreams and goals are not something you can achieve right this moment. You will become discouraged thinking about emigrating and building a new life. Start small with goals you can accomplish somewhat quicker. I hope you will feel better soon.

Answer 6

first of all, how do you know what you will find "on the other side"? From a purely scientific background, you will simply cease to exist...not meet up with whoever it is you want to see. Suicide is never the answer, all it is, is a selfish way out for a coward who is choosing to give up his strength wnd just give up. You are stronger than this. About never having a girlfriend...well I don't have a boyfriend and sure it gets me down sometimes, however, in these circumstances i think you should think of one thing that makes you happy, maybe it is hiking, golfing, whatever, and join a club or somehow get involved with at least one thing that makes you happy. It seems that you are in a bummer place right now in your life, but people are able to tell these things. When you become truly happy with your life, a girl will come around who wants to share that with you. i promise if you start becoming happier with your own life (maybe get a pet like a dog or a cat, they are proven to help relive stress and make people happier), things will begin to fall into place for you. I know it sounds cliche, but if you are happy, more happiness will find you. Life is not easy, and sometimes it even sucks, but it is the same for all of us. we all have shitty times, but we get through them. thats why life is so amazing...it is what we make of it. :) cheer up and smile because you never know who will fall in love with that smile

Answer 7

Have you ever seen the movie "What Dreams May Come" the wife commits suicide and goes to a sort of Hell. I don't think killing yourself is the answer. I think you may need to seek treatment. Find a counselor and get some help. It's not healthy to think about ending your life- no matter how bad. In many religions, killing yourself can have dire consequences on where your soul will end up . I don't suggest you try. I hope you find the help you need to pull out of this depression. Good luck!

Answer 8

Nobody knows. If they tell this or that it's just their thinking, they don't know.

Here's my thinking--go see a Dr. and get medication; clear your head and think more when you have a more normal view. Also,

no you will go to the grave, await the rapture and then???

I wonder if your being real, here. You know people are going to tell you no. Don't look for help here; get on medication it might change the way you feel; you will fiend a girlfriend--there ever where and who knows what life may offer you. You sound young. Things will change.

Get help--you owe yourself that. I'm a different story...

Answer 9

Please...don't think about a suicide.You will not be happy if you do it.
I understand,your frustration and loneliness at the time.You may not have anybody to talk to.But if you try,you can have friends.If that seems difficult join a support group where you can meet people with similar experiences.
If not,then think about one person in this world who is going to be affected if you are not there.Keep your spirit alive for that person.
If you stil continue to get such thought,I will be affected because since i am writing to you that means I do care for you.Please..Please ..don't think about it.
I had similar thoughts few years ago,but i helped myself.I'm glad I didn't do it.I am very happy today.
If you feel like you want to act on your thoughts,call 911.

Answer 10

Life is short at its very best,
God help each of us to stand the test.
Death comes soon without a warning,
For God's Saints, it is joy in the morning.

The Lord is soon coming for all His own,
To take us up to our new Heavenly home.
So let us live holy and be right with God,
For soon our feet will leave this earthly sod.

God loves us, He sent his only begotten Son,
For those who believe, He will save everyone.
One day we will breathe our final breath,
And will close our eyes in physical death.

But the soul and the spirit do not die,
They will live with Him forever in the sweet by and by.
Heaven or Hell, for you, what will the future be?
What we choose will last for all eternity.

Great are God's promises, great is His love,
Great is the promise of a new heaven above.
This earth is but a room or a dressing place,
To get us ready for God's heavenly space.

Life is short and will soon pass away,
So get ready to meet the Lord on that day.
Great hope He offers to me and to you,
Trust Him and you will come shining thru.