I'm feeling lost, I just lost my Mom of Cancer back in May, my Dad died in 2002 is anyone else feeling lost

Question

because your parents are gone.....I sure am!!!!

Thank You everyone for answering this very diffcult question. I know your pain and hurt. I hear your heart! I wish I could give you all a heart felt hug!! You all deserve the best answer, and please consider your answer as the best!!! My prayers go out to each of you!!! Thank you for sharing your heart!!!

Answer 1

Your not lost or alone... I'm here for you babe.. XOXO

Answer 2

I remember 4 years ago when my Dad died that I felt like an orphan. I was 49. My Mom had died 7 years before my Dad.
It is normal to feel lost when your parents are gone especially if you were lucky enough to have a close relationship with them.
Just keep doing what has to be done and the pain gradually gets more tolerable. And then someday you don't even think about how much you miss them for a full day, and eventually you go for longer without tears streaming down your face.
Praise the heavens for the love and support that you had while they were here.
After 5 years - I think about my Dad every time I have to go get my cars oil changed as he would do that for me, and I hate Sunday football as I lost my game watching buddy. JAG reruns make me Blue, and Crocuses (the last flower my mother saw) make me cry.
I am lucky I have a great sister that I can talk to when I feel those ways. She gets e-mails to let her know that I heard the first peep frogs in the Spring - because it was always important to share that information with my mother and then after she died with my Dad.
I hope you have somebody that is a family member or close friend that you can share those type of moments with.

Answer 3

oh my sweetie, it's a process in 2003 I lost a cousin in Jan. six months later my grandfather 3 months after that my mother, then in 2005 the cousin that passed in 2003 father passed of cancer 3 days before him I lost a cousin to lupus she was 27, this year my pastor passed in March and my connection to all these people was the Church because that is where we grew up so it felt like the end of a dynasty, I am an only child, my son is too we have just got to come to terms that is a part of GOD'S will and that he would not put more on us than we can bear. I will say a prayer for you because I know exactly how you feel!! I am 34 and I think about the years ahead but take solace in knowing that your mom is not suffering anymore and one day you will wake up and your pillow will be dry. Just take a day at a time and if you need to bawl let it out!! again our prayers are with you!

Answer 4

I lost my dad going on 3 years Nov. 26 and my paw-paw (dad's dad) died Aug 3. which is my dad's birthday. My 5 year old is beginning to understand what happened and is grieving the loss of both of them which only tears my heart out even more. My mom is out of state for 2 months so I miss her and it brings up feelings of loneliness and knowing she won't always be here either. I'm very sorry for you loss and to some degree feel your pain. It's a very hard feeling to deal with and makes you feel like the only one in the world who feels that way. If you just need someone to talk to you can email me if you want. Hope your feeling better soon.

Answer 5

Grief is a natural process we all have to go no matter what our age.I have also lost both my parents and many good friends over the years and it does not seem to get any easier.My Christian faith is what helps me because I know one day I will see them all
again.There is not a day I do not think of them,so I live as if this is was my last day and thinking how do I want to be remembered in case I die.Just know you are not alone and we the living must be brave and love each other while we are alive.

Answer 6

I'm really sorry to hear about your loss. I still have my dad but my mom died of cancer 4 years ago. I was 21 and still in college at the time. These things are hard, and they get harder for awhile but it does get easier. I just try my best to remember the good times before she was sick. I also know that she would want me to try and be as happy as possible without her so that's a pretty good motivator for me. Your parents would want the same for you. Hugs.

Answer 7

I lost my mom to cancer 7 years ago. It was fast & not pretty, not that it ever is. My dad has been out of the picture for years. I know how you feel. It is like losing your mooring and being set adrift. I went through grief counseling to help me but I don't think you ever get over that feeling. It just becomes part of who we are as adults that lose our parents.

Good Luck!

Answer 8

i sometimes feel lost because my mom passed in may of 2002 what a coincidence huh??? and i think of her everyday but i try not to get sad just think of the good times that u spent with them when they were here it will make u feel much better...blkbeautygrl07

Answer 9

I'm sorry.....I know how you feel, I lost my mom in '92 and my dad in '01..........doesn't seem to get easier as they say, I still cry..... Just remember all the good memories you have of them, sometimes that can cheer you up........Dianne

Answer 10

Lost, angry. Oh, so angry.
Life is so unfair.
I lost my Dad, then my Mum.
Now, I have just lost my sister 3 weeks ago.
I am a total mess.
You have just made me cry and cry and cry.
Sorry, I know how you feel.

Answer 11

by no ability, until eventually my final breath. we are all given a coronary heart that tells, us how we experience, the 5 senses as human coronary heart exhibits each thoughts we are in a position to locate, with our authentic thoughts the, hates ,pains, happiness. triumph, downfall. hurting, sorrow, aches, soreness, blissful, exhilaration, loving feeling.fantastically in case you fall in love .or in love.