my mom is crazy?

Question

i used to live with my mom. shes a coke/meth head. well i was known as sno bunny where i lived cuz i was the only white girl. my took that to mean that i was trickin for coke. she called me a s.lut and a bunch of really nasty things to me and it hurt a lot. do i forgive her or what i havent talked to her in like 4 months

shes already been to a rehad center and got out was clean for a while but when the court stepped out she gave up

Answer 1

It always hurts when a family member downs on you, but It's obvious shes saying hurtful things to you because shes in denial with her own self.Rehabilitation changes lives for the better, and I think this would be a great solution. Try and make it a family thing. Tell her how hurtful she's been. write her a letter, or sit and talk with her. Show her you are grown up, and you are taking responsibility for things she haven't. Family counseling might help as well. GOOD LUCK to ya, and if she doesn't want to participate, then she's running away from responsibility, and it's hard to say, but you must worry about yourself at this point. Get yourself out of that unhealthy situation.

Answer 2

I have lived in your shoes. You cannot help someone who does not want help. You can only help yourself. Focus on getting a good education. Perhaps you could become a doctor or a drug counselor. You can always pray for your mother, but they will never get up and get out until they hit bottom and get threw. I know it sounds harsh. I lost the love of my life that way. I can honestly say he is alive and well now and making over 100,000.00 a year because I left him. Do I miss him. EVERYDAY of my life. Am I sorry. NO because if I had stayed he would have been dead. He knows it and so do I he even tells me so to this day. It took eighteen years for us to be able to speak to each other again, but I am married and I have no reason to leave my husband. Still I do love the man I saved. I always will. I gave him my heart first. I do have a great husband and I love him too. Just work on yourself and pray for your mother. If she sees you doing well maybe she can better herself if not at least you will be doing well and you can get on with your life and become something and somebody! Good luck!

Answer 3

You can't hold grudges, it only hurts you. It will slowly turn you into a very angry bitter person. You deserve to be as happy as someone who doesn't have a meth head for a mom. Seriously, you don't have to be co-dependent to other people's bullsh*t. She hurts you because she 's hurting. That's not right and maybe she'll see her ways and maybe she wont. Either way don't use it as a excuse to become a fu*k up. You need to find confidence in God. You don't have to go to church. You can have your own relationship with god. Spirituality is real, just knowing that you have that guardian angel. It will help you see the good in your life. It can always be worse. Your alive and well, make the best of it. We can't pick are parents. Your special, something will happen for you someday. If your proactive, and don't wait for it to fall in your lap. Put your negative energy she gives you into a positive passion of yours. What ever doesn't kill you will make you stronger. God Bless, you are loved. I'll pray for you. Stay up!

Answer 4

Your mom is not crazy genetically, she's crazy because she's using coke. when using coke for a long time, it will actually damage your nerve cells. once the nerve cells are damaged this can make people act like crazy. you can forgive her since she doesnt know what she is doing. but the most helpful thing you can do is to bring her to a rehab center.

Answer 5

ur mom is adrug addict, and needs help! try 2 get ur mom help if u can. u olny have one mom, shes sick try 2 remember that..