I recently had sex ( for the first time )... and to be honest I hated it ... it was so painful I can't describe ! I'm only 14 so I dunno whether it's the fact that I'm so young . I love my boyfriend and everything don't get me wrong . I also bled , so my "cherry was popped" so that might have been the cause of the pain. I told a nurse and she gave me this pleasure ehancing lubricant, not for the fact it was pleasure enhancing but she said next time this should help. What should I do I want to try again but enjoy it this time ?! :S
2007-10-02 04:03:46 · 8 answers · asked by Cait 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for me sex hurt about the first ten times i did it...but the pain gets less each time...it might be different for different people, and maybe coz ur so young it will hurt more. From my exerience it will hurt less if he enters you really slowly with lubricant. Dont worry when i first did it i thought to myself, is it ever gonna feel good? But eventually it does and it feels really good, otherwise so many people wouldnt be doing it...so dont worry it will get better over time...altho ur second time doing it might still hurt.
2007-10-02 04:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by silky_goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll get better as you go... by your 2nd or 3rd time the pain will go away.. the first time always hurts so badly for the ladies.. its unavoidable. Just lubricate properly and tell your boyfriend to be gentle since you're new to this whole thing.
2007-10-02 04:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jack B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to consider if you're really read to be doing that again. If you're quite sure you want to, try using lubricated condoms and make sure you tell your boyfriend when he's hurting you. It may take some time, but eventually you'll hopefully start enjoying it.
2007-10-02 04:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound awfully young but i'm not hear to judge. sounds like you need more foreplay with your boy. get more excitement out of the situation before you go ahead and take him in you. the lubricant that the nurse gave you should help also. if you run out of use it ahead of time get some astroglide or ky from your local drug store.
2007-10-02 04:08:10 · answer #4 · answered by celestial316 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you're in your 20's and have been with several men and you can't enjoy sex then you should seek advice for now let your body get used to what's happening.
2007-10-02 04:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by FengHuaXueYue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope along with the lube she gave you a lecture about birth control!!!
2007-10-02 04:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can try oral sex! (You know you are a little young to have sex but... No problem this is your body)
2007-10-02 04:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the lube. That will help.
2007-10-02 04:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋