I had a pretty good second date with a guy on Saturday. We said goodbye and he said he was going in to work early but would catch up with me the next day (Sunday). He never called. I sent him a text on Sunday morning suggesting we should go to the beach if he got out of work early enough. He didn't respond. It's Tuesday now and I haven't heard from him. Its confusing because he talked about what a great time he had the first night we went out and sent me a message the next morning. On our first date he even said (without me asking) that he saw potential for us.
It seemed like he had a good time the second time we went out too. He just never calls. We only met two weeks ago...am I asking too much too soon? or is it time to let go?
2007-10-02 03:04:35 · 11 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he's timing his contact with you so he doesn't seem too "clingy"
2007-10-02 03:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by sakrificetheory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to let go.
There is one rule I apply when I date women. I give you one phone call, one message and then I wait for you to return my call. If you did not, then it is goodbye forever to you. Of course, until they return my call, then I am good to go. I do this because I dont want to fester people and it is my idea of being cordial and letting the lady choose if they want to call me back.
You should kind of do this with men too. He might not be wanting to hear from you. Maybe he lied about having a good time. Maybe he has another girlfriend. Or maybe he just has been busy. Either case, you did well already by calling him. It is his turn now if he actually wants to keep seeing you.
Good luck and dont forget! There is a lot of fish in the ocean!
2007-10-02 10:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by CHEPIBE72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calls can be hard to make at this point in the relationship, he might not want to come across as too "intense". But a text message or email seems quite appropriate. I guess give it a couple more days, maybe something came up or maybe he's following someone's (not-so-good, in my opinion) advice of ignoring girls to make them like you more.
2007-10-02 10:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh! Be patient already! Don't rush or push things. Maybe he's just not a good phone call kind of person. Maybe he's just uber busy. Maybe he forgot his phone at home. It's only been 2 weeks. If you're this paranoid now, what will happen in the future if you're living together and he comes home late one night?
2007-10-02 10:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by Curious Jenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jenny girl you are probably asking for to much to soon because when you are in a relationship a person really cant stand to see each other to often because if you see him everyday or every other day things start to get bored.
2007-10-02 10:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by ECG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to let go. You made the last contact and if he doesn't write back then he probably isn't interested. Sometimes it is just easier to tell you that he had a great time and likes you, rather than saying that he isn't interested and isn't going to call you. So, I think his silence speaks volumes.
2007-10-02 10:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have had to work more or later than he thought. You might try to text him in a couple of days and if he does not get in touch with you forget him and find a new one.
2007-10-02 10:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems like a very busy guy. alot of guys can get carried away from work, so if he didn't even bother to return anything you sent him, just forget about it. maybe he'll come back to you later and you can sort things out then
2007-10-02 10:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe his girlfriend wants to spend some time with him, don't be so selfish and give his kids and the mother of his kids some time with him
2007-10-02 10:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by zuppe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His actions are speaking louder than words. Move on.
2007-10-02 10:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i think is that he was just really using you that first night he doesnt want to know you now it sounds so... theres only one thing you dont know him. take that advice,trust me mate
good luck
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2007-10-02 10:10:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋