Is it OK for a female to Pleasure herself. I just want to know think of trying it out?

Question

I am only 16 and went to try it out. I know how but want to know what is the best thing to use for this that I can find around my house. I have try to do it with my fingers but nothing happened could I be doing some thing worng. I also want to try some thing that simulate penatration, but not a fake penis what can I use with out spening to much money or some thing in my houes

I don't want to waste food in order to pleasure my self is there any thing eles that I can find around my houes

Answer 1

well things like this take time. you must have precision and accuracy. it helps to do it in the open llike in your living room. or go to your parents room and lick the sheets. the dog is another good way to enjoy lifes pleasures. but...make sure to get a muzzle if youre a screamer.
it is also very helpful to have a bar of soap on hand in case things get messy. also hot dogs work well too. then you can have a nice little snack afterwards..enjoy!!!!

Answer 2

Certainly it is OK for a female to pleasure herself . You will learn about your own body reactions , sensitivities and erogenous zones . The Clitoris not the Vagina , is your focal point for masturbating with your fingers ; flick them gently , lightly over the clitoral shaft in more or less a circular movement . After a bath or shower , lie on your bed , you should soon have enough vaginal lubrication to smooth the way . KY Jelly in a tube is a good lubricant and easy to find at the pharmacy .
For penetration , carrots come first to mind , smooth cucumbers , Frankfurter sausages . If you can get hold of some condoms to put things in , it will help . Usually there are vending machines in public toilets .
Knowing your body and how to bring yourself to orgasm , will serve you well when you have a boyfriend or husband . It is , in my opinion , good for girls and women to have in their minds a sense of orgasm . Cumming is not just a physical reaction , it is in the mind . Some girls can *** just by squeezing their legs together and thinking about it . Enjoy yourself !!!

Answer 3

No it's a great idea for you to experiment (and it feels sooo good when you get it right :D). You might want to search the clitoris in google or something (if your not sure where/what it is, it's ok i didn't at 16!) as this is where your most likely to be able to feel pleasured.

Saying that no matter how long i spend rubbing in the right places etc i still can't reach my peak without my boyfriends (whoops no my ex now :S) help. God now i'm gonna be stuck in that department for ages... plus my shower (thus the head too) is broken too grr!

Answer 4

Use your fingers or a shower head massager. Stimulate your clitoris. Take your time, and don't rush it. From cold to orgasm could take 20 minutes.

Also, there is no substitute for the real feeling of a penis. If you wish to try insertion look for anything phallic shaped.

Answer 5

Yes, it is fine for you to explore your sexuality. In fact, I believe it is a good think.

You may want to continue practising with fingers and rubbing etc. otherwise maybe try a thoroughly washed carrot or something.

Otherwise depending upon your mum see if she will buy you something. I know my mum did for my sisters. (she is pretty cool though)

Answer 6

Everyone does it so don't get yourself too wrapped about it. Just wipe it with a disinfectant first and use lot of lubricant like KY Jelly. My GF said she used to use vegitable like carrot or cucumber wrapped with condom before she met me. :)

Answer 7

its really easy,
1. get in the mood( drink coke it will make you hyper and yh )
2. stack up two pillows on top of each other
3. put them in between your legs and start rubbing your clit on it ..
4. you will have a orgasm !

Answer 8

try various fruits, like bananas ;) or see if your dog/ cat/ hamster is feeling a bit hungry ... if you know what i mean! (P.S. get your pets in the mood with peanut butter!!)

Good luck, and always remember to have fun, and enjoy yourself!


safe sex = masterbation! =)

Answer 9

since your young age your g-spot isnt developed enough, so all penetration is gonna do for you is hurt. stick with your clit. try a back massager

Answer 10

here i'll give you my friends email who knows a really good way to do that "good" (literally) [e-mail]
she would love to talk to you about it, she has helped a lot of other people about this =]

please don't my name in the email. Thanks! =)
she won't know you your talking about b/c this isn't my real name